barneypwnedyou Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 I had been dating this girl for like 5 months When one day she suddenly asked me to be just friends I dont know what had happened and when I asked she never told me the reason. Until recently I wanted to get back with her and she said that she felt uncomfortable around me. Even though she loved me she felt wrong and that we weren't meant to tbe together. Well it could all be bull and that she's seeing someone else as she had been meeting and texting this friend a lot. So yeah, I just eanted to know what I did wrong to make her feel not right whenever being around me. Then she also added that if she couldn't move on she'll want to get back with me. Thoughts like I could be like her second choice if things don't work out between the other guy and her keep flowing to my mind making me restless. So any ideas? Thanks
Inviv_girl Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Leave!!!!!!!! Now!!!!!! NC immediately as hard as it is, but do it for your own sanity. Give her what she asking for! break up! Dont be her doormat "in case she cant move on she will come back to you" the fek is that?!? she seems childish and you really deserve better!
Author barneypwnedyou Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 Yeah after reading some posts here, I just realized how bad she was treating me. I went into NC. Deleting the pictures weren't easy though. The though of "what if i get back with her, I'll surely regret deleting these photos"= but yeah now I feel relieved. Thanks. It's also hard cuz the guy she's close to is a mutual friend.
David87 Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Never accept being just friends because she will use you as an emotional support or as a plan B. NC all the way.
deathandtaxes Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Then she also added that if she couldn't move on she'll want to get back with me. Translation - I want to break up with you to see how things go with another guy. I'm too immature or wuss to be honest with you that I'm seeing another guy. So if me and this guy don't work out, I want to go back to you, but mainly just for an emotional and sexual fix, and then I'll leave you again in the future when I've found another guy.
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