mickmarss Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 I was dating this great girl for almost 9 months. One day we had a fight and she ended it. It was coming she said, as she said we were moving to fast. I was shocked and hurt and didn't understand. She said we could still be together but take it slower and we have been. Though at times she says she is confused by what is going on, she always says she loves me. There is a six year age difference between us and she said she has issues with commitment. Settling down scares her Last week I recieved this text from her I just wanna thank you for the last few days. I can't tell yo how much i appreciate you being in my life. You are my rock, you have seen me ball my eyes out to letting me cry on your shoulder, to us laughing over the dumbest things until our stomach hurt and our eyes watered. I cant wait to see what the future holds for us and to be able to live moments that i will remember for the rest of my life. ILOVEYOU. Thank you for putting up with me when im insane and talking to me about your problems,you mean the world to me This confuses me a bit more how should i handle what is going on right now?
d0nnivain Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 You should handle this one of two ways . . . 1. break up with her if you can't handle her indecision or 2. back off, let her set the pace & come to you.
Poppygoodwill Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Seems to me that you did what she asked - backed off and took it a bit slower - and she's more comfortable and so feels a greater degree of comfort and willingness to commit to the idea of being with you in the future. She's telling you that. Think of her as a cat. If you try to pull a cat up in your lap half the time it will jump away. But if you sit quietly and patiently wait for the cat to circle and sit and watch and wait, then soon enough it will be up in your lap purring away. She just jumped up into your lap. Make sense? 2
Author mickmarss Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 Seems to me that you did what she asked - backed off and took it a bit slower - and she's more comfortable and so feels a greater degree of comfort and willingness to commit to the idea of being with you in the future. She's telling you that. Think of her as a cat. If you try to pull a cat up in your lap half the time it will jump away. But if you sit quietly and patiently wait for the cat to circle and sit and watch and wait, then soon enough it will be up in your lap purring away. She just jumped up into your lap. Make sense? that makes alot of sense ..thank you...i really hope he gets back with me
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