rov Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 I went on a date on friday with a girl I met on Facebook 3 weeks ago. The first two times I asked her for a date she didn't wanted to go because she was afraid of me because she didn't knew who I was. So I waited 3 more weeks and she accepted to go hang out with me, on friday we went for a coffee and we stayed there 4 hours, she only took her cellphone only two times to answer text messages, she was interested in all the conversations we had during the 4 hours. She had a dinner in the night that day so I asked her several times that I didn't wanted her to be late for her because of me and she said: No No, lets stay here for more time, it doesn't matter if get late to the dinner with my friends. I guess this was a very good sign that she was enjoying the date. At the end we kissed in the cheek and she hugged me. Tomorrow here in my country is holiday, so I was thinking in asking her out again, would it be a good idea? or should I wait more?. thanks!
Author rov Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 I invited her tomorrow to hang out with me, tomorrow people do not work because there are holidays here in Mexico. She told me that she can't hang out with me because here uncle came from spain to stay in here house and the always have dinner. So I do not know if i should wait a little time and insist in a few days or just leave it like this
acrosstheuniverse Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Ask her if she's free the day after tomorrow? Don't wait, if she says 'no' again, then it's up to her to suggest an alternative date, or she's not interested. But no harm in saying 'hey, are you free Tuesday night for dinner?' The longer you wait, the more chance there is of some other dude being the one to ask her out and show interest.
Author rov Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 After she told me that tomorrow she couldn't see me because she had a dinner with her family and uncle on Monday I told her if we could see each other on tuesday on wednesday and she answered this: Ill let you know because I have to give a training course in my work and I don't know which days of the week will it be. Does this sound as an excuse?. Maybe if really don't want to hang out with me she would have answered something else but not that "Ill let you know". What should I do?, stop contact with her until she makes contact with me and lets me know if we will hang out on tuesday or wednesday?.
Author rov Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 this is my post which you commented First date went great I think, how much time should I wait for a second? today I asked her directly if she will hang out with me here again and she told me this: This week Im really busy but the question is for you: do you want to have another date with me?, sony you think we are very similar in many ways? And I answered this: We are very similar in many ways and I see that as something good, I would like to know you more and have more dates she replied this: I have no problem, I think you are a good person and I have a good time with you but i think we will date as friends I replied this: Of course we will hang out as friends, I don't know what else you were thinking. My question is: Is there any hope here?, what should I do?
Tayken Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 @OP....you want to keep the momentum going and her interested. Out of sight and out of mind as the saying goes Kiss on the cheek is for birds.....get in there man and tap that thing
SunnySide0418 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 She's not feeling it for you. Maybe she's not attracted to you or something else but when a woman says she wants to hang out as friends and you want more it's not good. If you're ok with only being friends see her again if not I suggest moving on.
SunnySide0418 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 @OP....you want to keep the momentum going and her interested. Out of sight and out of mind as the saying goes Kiss on the cheek is for birds.....get in there man and tap that thing Really? She told him she only wanted to go out as friends!
Author rov Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 So is there hope here?, or should I forget about her
cynthia888 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 If a girl uses the "F" word (friend), it's a nice way of saying she is not interested in dating you.
SunnySide0418 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 There's hope for a friendship. If you want more move on ... She told you she's only interested in friendship. I don't get why people don't listen when they are directly told something?!?!
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