Highschool Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 I'm in my first year of university, not high school anymore. --- I hung out with this girl for a month or so in September, eventually asked her out on a real date. It prompted a talk, and we ended up having some weird romantic talk at night about us. She sort of "friend-zoned" me if we're talking bluntly, but the way she did it seemed really genuine to me and I thought that things might change one day. She's never dated before and there were some really good reasons why, and she seemed like she cared enough to tell me about her deep issues. We've gotten really close since then, and usually text all night a lot. It's fun flirting (she's getting used to that side of me lately, and definitely enjoys it). I just don't know if I'm wasting my time or not. I tried to distance myself for a couple of weeks, then I asked her to hang out last-minute, she already had plans with a girlfriend and said "maybe another time?". I thought she was blowing me off, so I suggested that if she wanted to hang out sometime, it's all on her now. So she took the initiative and asked me to hang out next week, we set a day/time. Now I have no idea what we're doing or where we're going, Canada's cold atm! She likes hanging out one-on-one but I feel like I've been wrapped around her finger, and I'm wondering if trying to lightly progress things physically is a good idea. Maybe trying for a little kiss through a hug she gives me or something. I'm still pretty inexperienced myself with this stuff, I feel like most experiences I've had were circumstantial. But I'm finding that with her, I'm starting to care less about what ends up happening. It seems to work better. There's been a million friends of ours that hope that we get together too, but I was trying to quiet them down since I'm confused as to what's going on. I think she's just confused of what she wants myself, honestly. But likes me a lot. Advice?
d0nnivain Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Since you are both inexperienced, why not start with holding her hand.
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