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First guy - totally fell for him,then it went flat,told him to Pursue other girls,which he did, but the girl he went on a date with they had no connection - the whole time he kept emailing me etc.

 

Today I replied and he was saying how he couldn't care if he never sees this girl again. I said I was dating someone now.but I still feel something for him.

he is crazy artist type like me.he was really into me,but can be flakey,still he emails me even when I don't reply,I find it hard to tell him my feelings.

 

 

Second guy - is great,as soon as I open my eyes he msges me,stays up till 4am to talk to me every night,tells me everything he's feeling ,I have no problem sharing everything with him,telling him everything,a problem I had before.

But maybe this means I don't care what he thinks?

 

he also looks like Milo Ventimiglia.

This guy seems more serious and even knows about the other guy.

 

I might also have ruined things with second guy last night I told him talking to him was a total waste of my time (I had been talking to the other guy that's why I said it),I've never been unkind to this guy - anyway he's very distant today.

 

How are you suppose to choose?

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I vote neither. Why does it have to be one or the other? Wait for somebody you're crazy about.

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I am in love with both of them.

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I am in love with both of them.

 

Don't be so stupid.

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@OP....

 

How about you try the reliable "Eeny, meeny, miny, moe" method?

 

Wait for somebody you're crazy about.
Or vis-avis... one that is not crazy about her?

 

Seriously

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I'm kinda baffled that guy 1 is in the running.

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Reason and love lie not together

 

Don't be so stupid.
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Well it's not always just the ability to communicate it's some kind of pull or energetic thing,but yea the other guy is giving more.

 

I'm kinda baffled that guy 1 is in the running.
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You cannot love both of them.

 

Whose he?

 

 

First guy - totally fell for him,then it went flat,told him to Pursue other girls,which he did, but the girl he went on a date with they had no connection - the whole time he kept emailing me etc.

 

Today I replied and he was saying how he couldn't care if he never sees this girl again. I said I was dating someone now.but I still feel something for him.

he is crazy artist type like me.he was really into me,but can be flakey,still he emails me even when I don't reply,I find it hard to tell him my feelings.

 

 

Second guy - is great,as soon as I open my eyes he msges me,stays up till 4am to talk to me every night,tells me everything he's feeling ,I have no problem sharing everything with him,telling him everything,a problem I had before.

But maybe this means I don't care what he thinks?

 

he also looks like Milo Ventimiglia.

This guy seems more serious and even knows about the other guy.

 

I might also have ruined things with second guy last night I told him talking to him was a total waste of my time (I had been talking to the other guy that's why I said it),I've never been unkind to this guy - anyway he's very distant today.

 

How are you suppose to choose?

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He is an actor.

 

Just to make things more complicated,the guy who said I was his soulmate(third guy I met at Xmas)

Well he started emailing me today and I explained I was dating second guy,and he said ok,then he wrote another email saying he thinks I should date him instead.(!)

 

I actually like all three,but the third one is actually the only one I'd call a 'soulmate' you know how that Word just doesn't fit some people you're with.strange.

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Pick the one that makes you laugh the most. At the end of the day, looks can change, people can change, but happiness is what matters the most. If they all drive you nuts, then don't pick any of them.

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