Orangecrush55 Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Background: We dated 3 years. Have broken up a few times and after a couple of weeks have always gotten back together after settling some issues. I say I have it easy only because my ex happened to get rid of her smart phone not too long before we broke up (she sold it cause she needed money). So she had a phone that had no social media access and doesnt have a computer. This should be a dream come true for anyone trying to do NC because even if I get the urge to check her facebook or twitter, there isnt anything new on there anyways. So even if I tried, I have NO idea of what she is doing. It still stings because I still have that craving of knowing where she is at and what she is doing but have absolutely no way of finding out. Not to mention I have her email password (I made the account for her while dating) and could easily reset her facebook password so I could read what she had been saying or messaging before she actually got cut off from social media. There was a short time there that she was using someone elses computer for facebook after the split. Although my curiosity has been killing me to reset it and see what I can find I have held out... Which makes me proud. Ive been through the break ups before and I know that all they could do is hurt me further and be a setback but my desire to know sometimes seems more worth it when its in the moment. Not to mention she would know if she ever tried to access it again cause it would say the password had been changed and even give the date and time it was done . So far Ive been some what strong and I hope I can continue it.
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