Groovy Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Initially I felt jealous of my ex and his girlfriend. He had not treated me so great and seemed to treat her well. She was beautiful and kind. Now my ex had a baby with this women and didn't marry her despite a year of dating. He made it sound like she didn't want to marry him. I recently looked at some pics he had mentioned to me on-line and I saw her looking very sad in a hosiptal bed with a baby, probably overwhelmed with one kid from a man who divored her already I was on my computer and went through my IM log and by coincidence saw a conversation several months ago we had. I realized his girlfriend was 1 1/2 months pregnant. but at the time I didn't know this. We just talked about how he wanted to break up with her and didn't love her anymore. Ironic. He continued to talk to me until he had the baby, in which I guess he had to tell me at some point...... My point of the post is don't be sad if you are not married with kids, sometimes you are better off! And don't think he will treat you different, because he probably won't. And sometimes what feels like a heart wrenching break up it can actually be a blessing years down the road.
Violett Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 Thanks for posting this. An intelligent & uplifting message!
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