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Scared or Not ready?


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Hi guys,

 

So lately I have noticed a really strange pattern which never happened to me before. I used to take dating so lightly, but after getting hurt a couple of times, I feel as though I have developed a very unhealthy approach to dating.

 

Every single time I meet a guy, we go on a couple of dates and things start progressing, there comes a point where I come home and I start crying because I'm scared of getting hurt. This results in me either cutting them off or them falling off the radar due to my cold and unenthusiastic behavior. I have this permanent mindset - "Don't bother, he's like all the others, a douche who is just playing you".

 

What's wrong with me? Surely, when things are progressing, one shouldn't cry themselves to sleep because they're "scared". This is a bit ridiculous.

 

Thank you,

Edited by ShiningMoon
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What's wrong with me?

Not going to touch that one but I have a few questions for you.

 

Why do you keep putting these chaps through all of this stuff? Are you wishing and hoping there's going to be one man out there that will help you break through your normal routine? What makes you think you have to date? Scared of being alone?

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