Kermit76 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 2 year relationship. Pretty much no contact except once at the 3 month mark by me and a happy bd email from her last month. Long story short...there has been no interest from her. Hasn't asked any questions about me. Still have good and bad days. Actually checked her Facebook account yesterday which is set to private but deleted photos of her as well. Hopefully, starting some therapy in the coming weeks. Why do I still feel sad when my ex dumped me when I was going thru a hard time in my life, has been so insensitive since BU, and was very selfish when we were together? Am I co-dependent? Why can't I see she wasn't the one. Honestly, even if she came back I'm not sure if I take her back. She dumped me twice. And even with all this I still feel sad. Is this normal? Thanks
Discover Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Same feelings here, mate! I think it is because of the EXPECTATIONS and HOPE... I too feel sad despite everything..don't worry, hopefully it will pass soon
David87 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Yes it's normal to feel sad, because you loved her with all your heart. 5 Months have past. Let it go and date other girls. She will allways have a place in your heart that's the sad part but that doesn't mean you will never love again. From experience I can tell you that I still care about my ex from 2012 and for my ex from december. They dumped me and I tought that I will marry them.... that's life. We have to move on and find another girl to love even more than the last one. But first have some fun 2
Haydn Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 mate its not normal to be dumped twice. I thought it was as well. Yes they can come back but its really about us. If we feel that they can come back any time they want then yes its us. I was the same for a while until i started to see the battle was un-winnable. Yes you care. But it has to be about yourself now. Takes time and sometimes the feelings can come back and bite you. 2 year relationship. Pretty much no contact except once at the 3 month mark by me and a happy bd email from her last month. Long story short...there has been no interest from her. Hasn't asked any questions about me. Still have good and bad days. Actually checked her Facebook account yesterday which is set to private but deleted photos of her as well. Hopefully, starting some therapy in the coming weeks. Why do I still feel sad when my ex dumped me when I was going thru a hard time in my life, has been so insensitive since BU, and was very selfish when we were together? Am I co-dependent? Why can't I see she wasn't the one. Honestly, even if she came back I'm not sure if I take her back. She dumped me twice. And even with all this I still feel sad. Is this normal? Thanks
Author Kermit76 Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 Yeah. After I was dumped once should have been the red flag. Ugh.
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