yokel Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 I've been talking to this girl for many months. It's been four weeks since I finally managed to ask her out, and we've been dating since. It was good for two weeks, ok for the third, and by the fourth I've noticed I'm not talking to her at all anymore, barely even over text. She seems slightly annoyed when I try to talk to her but won't admit it, will never attempt to talk to me, and has never even said that she likes me unless I ask her. I do try to talk to her, but it ends up in me looking like an idiot and her either shooing me away or getting distracted by her friends, or even her just replying in a 6-word MAX sentences all beginning with "uh." She is emotionally closed, but that's just part of her personality; she is like that to everybody. I really want to break up with her because I don't think that she likes me anymore, and there's no point in dragging on this relationship if we're barely talking. Should I dump her or am I overreacting?
ktya Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 You arent in a relationship with her. Shes not into you. Shes annoyed that you keep texting and trying to talk to her. (ugh is not an endearing pet name). Just stop texting and talking to her. If she starts talking to you maybe your problem is fixed if not then you have nothing to worry about. Just go date someone else.
ZackSteele Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 @yokel No need to dump her (If you like her) However, it does seem like your putting in a lot of effort to "make her" like you My suggestion: If you do like her, and you do think you wanna keep seeing her Don't ask her if she likes you, or make her try and say it (never do that) If you want her to like you, its simple Give Her the Chance to like You Just be cool. Make her laugh. Make Yourself laugh! when you are with her It sounds like things are very bland w you and her right now Hope this Helps -Zack (PM me if you have ever need more advice, always willing to help out)
ExpatInItaly Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Like another poster suggested, there's really no need to break up.There't not much of a relationship to end, honestly. She doesn't appear to be all that interested. I would simply stop texting her and trying to get her attention. She's not giving you any kind of respect if she acts annoyed by you. If she likes you, she will come looking for you. If she doesn't, it confirms what you already suspect. She's wasting your time, in my opinion.
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