dcfantom Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 About a couple of weeks ago, me and my ex broke up. Her and her dad were threatening to file a restraining order on my based on false pretenses. The just recently called my mom's phone since I have their numbers blocked on my phone and I have them blocked on facebook. They basically said, "We won't file the restraining order against you even though every thing is your fault, we are willing to talk to you about this. We want you back." I have decided that I will never be in contact with anyone who makes false allegations against me and threatens a restraining order against me based on these lies. I just would like to hear what people have to say about this. 1
seekingpeaceinlove Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 It's hard to give you an opinion without knowing the back story but it's great that you're not lashing back with anger and drama and staying cool. It's odd that the text refers to "we." Your relationship was with you and your ex...why the "we want you back." That alone is creepy, controlling and odd. 3
HokeyReligions Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 If I were in your shoes I think I would file a restraining order on them. You blocked them and THEY (? Really 'they"?) Contacted you. You are well shut of them. Stay no contact and move on. 1
Author dcfantom Posted February 1, 2014 Author Posted February 1, 2014 About a couple of weeks ago, me and my ex broke up. Her and her dad were threatening to file a restraining order on my based on false pretenses. The just recently called my mom's phone since I have their numbers blocked on my phone and I have them blocked on facebook. They basically said, "We won't file the restraining order against you even though every thing is your fault, we are willing to talk to you about this. We want you back." I have decided that I will never be in contact with anyone who makes false allegations against me and threatens a restraining order against me based on these lies. I just would like to hear what people have to say about this. When I say "we", I am also referring to her dad. Her dad is a major control freak and gets involved in matters between me and my ex.
Trep Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 When I say "we", I am also referring to her dad. Her dad is a major control freak and gets involved in matters between me and my ex. They sound like a couple of nutcases 1
Grumpybutfun Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Say no to drama and forget about her. Restraining orders are for violent offenders...are you a violent offender? Did you try to hurt her or make her feel threatened? G
Author dcfantom Posted February 1, 2014 Author Posted February 1, 2014 Say no to drama and forget about her. Restraining orders are for violent offenders...are you a violent offender? Did you try to hurt her or make her feel threatened? G I never hurt her. I have a clean track record. After receiving silent treatment from her, I said "don't ever do that again" and she took that as a threat.
veggirl Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 You should put your energy into finding someone who is not tied to her daddy like that. I mean, even if somehow you got back together, daddy will always be the 3rd person in your R. Not cool. 2
Sugarkane Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Why are prophecy ing for restraining orders, when they're the ones contacting you?!
Author dcfantom Posted February 2, 2014 Author Posted February 2, 2014 Thank you all for your feedback. I made a post explaining more of what happened under the thread, "Post here instead of contacting your ex!" and I titled the response "The reason why I cut you out of my life."
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