zoso192 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Well I met a girl in my class at school. Me and her have been talking for a week straight and have great communication and are very open with each other. Basically last week I asked her out and she came with me to a bar where we got pretty faded and hooked up (no sex). As time has gone by we grew so close to each other soo naturally. For other reason im not going to get into, we were able to relate and learn a lot about each other very deeply. However, while her face and personality are beautiful. And shes smart and strong independent woman, her body is on the bigger side. I let things take course and last night I went to her house and cooked dinner for her. She then wanted sex and we tried. The problem is I was turned off sexually by her. I came really fast the first time, and the rest of the night I couldn't keep a boner and I know its cause I didn't feel it. The next morning we talked and I told her I didn't want to even attempt it anymore and I was not feeling her in that sense. I feel like **** and she says I shouldn't have even said anything...any words of advise?
TaraMaiden Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 write this to her: "The reason I told you is because I have deep feelings for you, and I respect you. I don't ever want to lie to you, because you are a very special friend and you mean a lot to me. I think we are too close emotionally as friends to become sexually involved. It felt wrong having sex with you because you are too much of a good friend for me to do that with. I am really sorry I offended you. Friends are rare, and good friends even rarer. Very hard to come by. Please forgive my clumsiness, I never meant to hurt you." But only write it if you believe it, and mean it. 1
Author zoso192 Posted February 1, 2014 Author Posted February 1, 2014 I think ima just tell her in person but that sounds really good. Good idea thank you
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