athiria Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 (edited) Hi I got dumped 5 months ago... We go to the same school. He has ignored me a lot (sits in the other side of the classroom) and I have ignored him. He said hello to me sometimes but I didnt say anything back. I felt very bad when he would suddenly look almost beggingly at me opening a door since I was still in love with him, and I needed a schedule like "We never ever speak to each other". For example 3,5 month ago when we tried to be friends and I wanted to take him for a cup of coffee he didn't really appreciating it, I said "You don't want to be friends, right?!" and he said "You're following me! And you haven't even called me ONCE to see if I'm okay!" exactly like that. So that's why I cant take saying hello to him - since he's said strange things in the past, I'm afraid I will misinterpret things and believe he wants me back. So I called him and said very calmly "I'm getting confused when you're saying hello to me sometimes" and he just laughed in my face and said "these conversations are so ENTERTAINING!!" and I felt like he was provoking me during the conversation. He asked "why don't you want to talk to me?" and I said "Because you're my ex!" and he laughed and said that if you should be nice to somebody that would be your ex. And he told me life goes on and you have to accept it, and "It's not like we're talking in our free times". Then he said "This can't be what you wanted to talk about, what is your real purpose of calling?" I said it was all. Then he said "I'm going to keep saying hello to you and you can keep ignoring me!" and the conversation was over. Three days later I called and asked if there were any problem and he denied he had ever said hello to me. "If you just keep overanalyzing everything will be fine" he said. So I said "right! So you've never said hello to me, then you are fine with having no contact in the future also?" and he said "sure!" Next week in school I don't know if I'm wrong about this, but it was like he wanted me to say hello. He always turned to me when I walked past and once sighted when I saw him and walked very quickly. He also walked slowly in a room when I was comming which is really different from before. Then in the library he was talking to the swedish teacher and screamed "I have a date next week!" so I would hear. So, now I don't know what to do. I just want this to stop. Is it best for me to keep ignoring if he says hi, or to change my tactic and say hi if it's so important for him, even if I feel worse from it? Edited February 1, 2014 by athiria
TaraMaiden Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 You're making far too much of this. You're both young, still in school, but together through circumstance, not choice. Continue ignoring him and expect nothing from him. Don't be so serious.... It's over, chill. Relax. Just be natural. He's not out to hurt you or confuse you. It's not the end of the world....
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