MassiveAtom Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 Okay y'all, I'm new to this section. If you want background on who I am or anything like that, go to the marriage section, read all the stuff, then go to the divorce section, and read all the stuff. Or just read this! I'm just recently separated, I'm really quite okay these days, I joined Match dot com and started emailing. The response was great! So I start chatting with a really cute lady who seemed very interested, and WAS very interesting. So I asked her for the digits. They flowed back nicely. I didn't call her right away, I never do, I like to make the time where I can sit and give "her" all of my attention. So she sent me a couple of "will you call already!?" emails. When I did call her, there was no answer. Three times. No answer. Then I sent another email, no Answer... notice the pattern? Move on, or wait? What say you, ladies of the dating scene? as always MA
agnf666 Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 She may have moved on... There may still be a chance with her thought, I would maybe call her one more time. Then I would Email her and ask her when would be a good time to talk. If she doesn't answer you with in 2 days then I would move on.
VirginiaBob Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 You should have just called once, but besides that, you got off easy. I like to date a lot of women, and the ones that I have interest in, I call once only. The funny thing is that I actually prefer that I call them and they are not home. That way I just leave a quick message and the ball is in thier court, without actually having to force a conversation if they aren't interested in me. Makes things easier that way. If they do answer, after a little small talk, I ask them out. If I hear an excuse, I say "maybe some other time - call me if you are interested", and then end the conversation shortly after. Again, the ball is in her court. And sometimes, an excuse actually does not mean "no", because I have had women make an excuse and still ended up calling me later.
Anais Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Well there are really many crazy people sometime. My first online encounter was very disappointing. He asked the phone after long chatting and called me for about a month. I called him twice two. Finally we decided to meet in RL. Agreed the place and everything. He seemed to be very intelligent. Something came to me to call him the day before going to the date. He didn’t answer. I didn’t go to the date but kept calling and emailing. No answer. Next day he changed his online profile to married. I was so confused and disappointed. I thought that was first and last time I talk with someone online. But I did it again and now I am happily married to a wonderful man. Hope it works fine for you this time. But if not, just keep looking.
Author MassiveAtom Posted January 15, 2005 Author Posted January 15, 2005 Well it's funny, The first time I called her and didn't get an answer I just called my daughter to say goodnight. I got ANOTHER "C'mon call me!" email from her right then. So I knew she was at least in front of her computer, So I called her back. No answer. Then I gave her a definite time and date that I would call. I got, no answer. One time I even called without caller ID, no answer. So I was a bit befuddled. But whatever, I have a date with a really cute Librarian on Monday! My question, why would she give me her number and not intend to pick up? what's THAT about?!? What fun! Thanks guys and gals. as always, MA
agnf666 Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Maybe she gave you someone else's number. Why in the hell would she lead you on like that. F#@K Her you can find someone else. She is just being F#@kin Retarded. I would not make anymore contact with her, she is just ignoring your phone calls anyways. FORGET HER!!
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