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Girlfriend asked to see me before i go away for a year


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So i've decided i won't see her before I leave. I havent seen her since the BU and that was about 5 months ago...ish.. maybe a tad less.

 

Anyway, how should i say it? Should i just send a text?...

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Point Blank- Don't say it or text it, Do it- Just go.

 

On a side note- Where is this need coming from that you are going to consider texting her after you already broke up and your life is your own to do as you chose. You dont need to tell her anything, you are free to roam the world as you please.

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Point Blank- Don't say it or text it, Do it- Just go.

 

On a side note- Where is this need coming from that you are going to consider texting her after you already broke up and your life is your own to do as you chose. You dont need to tell her anything, you are free to roam the world as you please.

 

you are right. We're not on bad terms though at all and even though i have every right to leave and not say a thing, i feel at the same time it would be a dick move to just go and say nothing after she asked to see me.

 

when she asked (maybe about a month ago) i said i'd think about it.

 

So just assume i will say something - how could i word it?

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you are right. We're not on bad terms though at all and even though i have every right to leave and not say a thing, i feel at the same time it would be a dick move to just go and say nothing after she asked to see me.

 

when she asked (maybe about a month ago) i said i'd think about it.

 

So just assume i will say something - how could i word it?

 

You guys are break up ok, so that means you are in bad terms. If you were on good terms you'l still be together.

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just wanted a simple answer to the question but if that's too hard then don't worry

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just wanted a simple answer to the question but if that's too hard then don't worry

 

Just meet with her if you are in good terms. Over text it's hard to say good bye.

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If you know you are completely over it [you are indifferent to her existence as opposed to hating/loving her], you could do it ... you know best if you can handle it.

Safe bet would be not to do it though.

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Cheers fellas

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