allenpo123 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Last night I went out with this guy the 4th time, and this time somehow we came clean that we both liked each other, cuddled and kissed a little.. Now I can't stop thinking about him, my sweater and scarf smells like him, and I keep recalling how he pats my head and plays with my hair.... I can't wait to see him again this evening... Ughhh I sound really highschooly but I literally can't stop thinking about him!! Help! I don't want to become this clingy girl who is already acting like a demanding needy gf when we're not even a couple yet!! Help!!! What can I do to like him less now!! I need to stop myself before I become clingy!!
GoreSP Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 I agree with Keenly here. You really really like him but you aren't clingy. Clingy is more like texting him every 5 minutes until he responds.
Quiet Storm Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 It's ok to be excited about him. Just remember that you are responsible for your own happiness.
Eivuwan Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 Last night I went out with this guy the 4th time, and this time somehow we came clean that we both liked each other, cuddled and kissed a little.. Now I can't stop thinking about him, my sweater and scarf smells like him, and I keep recalling how he pats my head and plays with my hair.... I can't wait to see him again this evening... Ughhh I sound really highschooly but I literally can't stop thinking about him!! Help! I don't want to become this clingy girl who is already acting like a demanding needy gf when we're not even a couple yet!! Help!!! What can I do to like him less now!! I need to stop myself before I become clingy!! I would just enjoy the good feelings of the honeymoon phase.
Ok Good Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Last night I went out with this guy the 4th time, and this time somehow we came clean that we both liked each other, cuddled and kissed a little.. Now I can't stop thinking about him, my sweater and scarf smells like him, and I keep recalling how he pats my head and plays with my hair.... I can't wait to see him again this evening... Ughhh I sound really highschooly but I literally can't stop thinking about him!! Help! I don't want to become this clingy girl who is already acting like a demanding needy gf when we're not even a couple yet!! Help!!! What can I do to like him less now!! I need to stop myself before I become clingy!! awesome that you met a great guy! to help yourself not get too overwhelmed with the excitement about him keep yourself DISTRACTED read books post here stay physical what has helped me is that I delete our texts so I don't obsessively keep reading them (i save the sms to an online acct)
Author allenpo123 Posted February 16, 2014 Author Posted February 16, 2014 [quote= what has helped me is that I delete our texts so I don't obsessively keep reading them (i save the sms to an online acct) I deleted our texts too!! But I didn't save the them to another account tho.. But it really helped me not getting too emotional.. although things are over with this guy but I have to admit deleting texts is a great idea!!!
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