krislvilla Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Hi everyone, A couple of days ago I was browsing on my boyfriend's Facebook (he lets me), and I had the urge to look thru his messages. Ehh mostly from people I know, but he keeps talking to one of his friend's sister. Obviously I got jealous, I dont know who she is and my boyfriend told it was a friend from back then. They talked last Friday about hanging out and when she said she couldn't my boyfriend said oh thats a bummer maybe next time. Thats when I got furious. I confronted him and told him what do you have with her and he didn't say much. Trust is one of my bad traits but its having faith that gets me thru. I've been cheated on, lied to, led on just bad experiences with people that ruined my trust. I told him that if he ever cheated on me I will never ever trust anymore and we'll be done because I warned you. I tell Him what I do and where and who I'm going out with. And he either tells me very little about what he's doing or nothing at all. All he does is ask me why I'm jealous and just hugs me like if he fixed everything. Wait there's more, I found a phone number from some other girl tucked into his ipad case. He says its the girl who made his duct tape wallet. My policy is if I don't know this person and you want to hang out with them I have to get to know them too. And its the same way around with my friends. He's lucky that I don't yell in his face, I try to keep it civil. What should I do? Any opinions
mukkrakker Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Is this the same guy from "its complicated"? He sounds like a user, babe, I'd dump him.
Keenly Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 You sound incredibly controlling. Especially with that " if I don't know them I need to meet them " Okay mom. Work in your insecurities and your baggage. They are YOUR issues. He's is LUCKY that you don't yell at him. Do you hear yourself ? Bring it down a few notches. Learn to trust.
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