ctxinfl Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 So I'm meeting someone I've been dating for a few weeks for lunch today. We're starting to get fairly serious. So far we've had fairly light conversations, though I've found out a decent amount about her past. Is there anything I really should know about at this point? Past relationships? Divorce? That sort of thing.
SunnySide0418 Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Um, yeah ... you've been on 6 dates and don't know if she's divorced or anything about her past relationships? I think that's odd. I think by now you should feel comfortable enough to ask her anything.
Author ctxinfl Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 Apologies. I do know she's divorced and doesn't get along well with her ex. I just haven't probed in to why they are divorced and don't get along.
organizedchaos Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 So I'm meeting someone I've been dating for a few weeks for lunch today. We're starting to get fairly serious. So far we've had fairly light conversations, though I've found out a decent amount about her past. Is there anything I really should know about at this point? Past relationships? Divorce? That sort of thing. Is this the first relationship you've ever had? Otherwise, what have you done in the past by this point?
soccerrprp Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 By this time I know a lot about the lady i'm dating. Divorced? Why? Etc.etc.etc...don't want to hang out all your laundry, but you should know quite a bit.
Author ctxinfl Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 Is this the first relationship you've ever had? Otherwise, what have you done in the past by this point? Not my first, though my first new relationship in 17 years. So it feels like my first. And the situation is so different. Last time I did this we were both early 20s. No kids. No prior relationships. Etc.
organizedchaos Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Not my first, though my first new relationship in 17 years. So it feels like my first. And the situation is so different. Last time I did this we were both early 20s. No kids. No prior relationships. Etc. Ok. Well, be good to know if she's ever been convicted of a crime.
Pinch Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Let her talk, have a few glasses of wine.She will tell you everything you need to know.But just listen, and closely. Good luck
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