BetrayedH Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 It is time to file. Good luck to you. Yep. I think filing is his best shot at getting some answers.
underwater2010 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Maybe I'm misunderstanding what's going on, but I have to say... If my husband had an affair, I don't see why I'd have to contact the spouse of the person he was having the affair with, and I don't know why his spouse would think that I'd owe him answers. If I got a random text from somebody claiming to be the husband of the woman my husband was having an affair with and asking for me to discuss it with them, I'd also ignore it. Sorry you feel that way. Most of us would chose NOT to bury our head. I had no issue when I contacted the BH of the MOW. He wanted answers just as I did. Bobwhite007...you did what you could. I would let some time lapse and then call that number again. Texts are very easily intercepted. Good luck and I hope the meds are helping.
Man Mountain Makino Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I did contact a woman with that name by text. She texted back that i had the wrong number. I asked her if she was married to LB. She te ted back wrong number. I then texted back that i was sorry to bother her and said that he and my wife had become close "friends" and was wanting to dicuss it with her. No response. That's major league, five star weird texting, pal. What possessed you to keep texting when she told you wrong number?
beach Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 You play games Bob. Complaining about your wife's odd behavior but doing nothing concrete to discuss it with her and change the situation is just frustrating and pathetic at best. Take action to change your life. No one else is going to do it for you.
petee Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Bob mate, this is major league. Your health is suffering and you are not at a stage of implementing any type of acceptable solution for yourself. Nobody out there can do this for you, you need to grab the nettle. She isn't allaying your fears, perhaps she's compounding them...worst case. Whatever you do, you did NOT ask for any of this to happen. BetrayedH maybe has offered one solution, or perhaps a method that would work. File, even if its not your intention. If a shot across her bows doesn't work I fear she's not a 'keeper', but from all the advice here....one glove does not fit all. You need to resolve this though, on that this whole thread is unanimous.
Author bobwhite007 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Bob mate, this is major league. Your health is suffering and you are not at a stage of implementing any type of acceptable solution for yourself. Nobody out there can do this for you, you need to grab the nettle. She isn't allaying your fears, perhaps she's compounding them...worst case. Whatever you do, you did NOT ask for any of this to happen. BetrayedH maybe has offered one solution, or perhaps a method that would work. File, even if its not your intention. If a shot across her bows doesn't work I fear she's not a 'keeper', but from all the advice here....one glove does not fit all. You need to resolve this though, on that this whole thread is unanimous. I have worked very hard to stay physically healthy. She ask me to forgive her for deleting the texts. She admits going to the graveyard, she says she went there alone. I say i saw someone with you she says no you didnt. She says it was wrong to delete the texts but if im looking for some sort of confession im not going to get it. She does not want anyone to know. She didnt say that but i can understand why. I know what to do but i just cant right now. Why ? Idunno. I liked the life i had before.
miguelcervantes Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I have worked very hard to stay physically healthy. She ask me to forgive her for deleting the texts. She admits going to the graveyard, she says she went there alone. I say i saw someone with you she says no you didnt. She says it was wrong to delete the texts but if im looking for some sort of confession im not going to get it. She does not want anyone to know. She didnt say that but i can understand why. I know what to do but i just cant right now. Why ? Idunno. I liked the life i had before. Bob I would leave just for that statement if nothing else - she is a pathological liar and is now trying to make you doubt your sanity! You saw her with a man in the graveyard - she cannot be let off that hook! She might suddenly "remember" and say it was her financial adviser or something ridiculous but the damage has already been done - she is prepared to blatantly lie even at the cost of you questioning your sanity!!!!!
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