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Its my x birthday 2mrw. He left me for someone else and when I confronted him about the lies he said, he blocked me from facebook and in every other way possible. I angered him with my honesty and discovery of the truth. He was angry that I was accusing him of things when it was really obvious. Now its his birthday 2mrw, should I wish him or leave it? I don't want to look desperate.

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Why would want to wish him on his birthday after all this?

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Don't do nothing, let it be. It's just an ordinary day for you.

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The only certainty you have is that you will look desperate. It's fan mail for him. He's with someone else, end of story. I know this feeling of nervousness as his birthday approaches but you know what feels amazing? waking up the next day more empowered than ever since the BU, knowing your dignity's been put to test and you didn't fail again, it's a win for your self-esteem and it creates more distance and helps you heal.

 

I recommend you to make good plans with your friends for that day, helps make it go by faster.

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Its my x birthday 2mrw. He left me for someone else and when I confronted him about the lies he said, he blocked me from facebook and in every other way possible. I angered him with my honesty and discovery of the truth. He was angry that I was accusing him of things when it was really obvious. Now its his birthday 2mrw, should I wish him or leave it? I don't want to look desperate.

 

 

 

So lets recap

 

 

Left you for someone else.

 

 

Ah, screw it, that's all we need to know.

 

 

Really??? Really??? You have to ask? Really???

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Its my x birthday 2mrw. He left me for someone else and when I confronted him about the lies he said, he blocked me from facebook and in every other way possible. I angered him with my honesty and discovery of the truth. He was angry that I was accusing him of things when it was really obvious. Now its his birthday 2mrw, should I wish him or leave it? I don't want to look desperate.

 

No.

Leave it.

He gave a phukk about you.

 

Why on earth would you want to give one about him??

 

You wouldn't look desperate to him.

You'd merely confirm in his eyes that you can't live without him, he's still got you, and he figures in your life a lot more than you're letting on.

 

That's not 'desperate'.

 

That's just downright stupid.

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NO no no no. He will think. So she cant stop thinking about me. NO

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No.

 

No ifs buts or maybes. Just no.

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He doesn't deserve anything from you, don't do it

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