amelady74 Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 (edited) I was seeing this guy for eight months. After our first few months he wanted to make sure he was only seeing me and I was only seeing him. Then after month five, I found out he didn't believe we were together. That we had a relationship but we weren't serious. which confused me. So I broke it off with him and started seeing someone else for about a month. I just didnt want to play games. All the while I was still in contact with the guy who I broke it off with, but was mostly ignoring him. The entire time I was seeing someone else he was calling me and texting me everyday telling me he missed me. I decided I really missed him and decided to end my one month fling and try to work things out with the guy I had been with for 5 months before. we dated for two more months, then out of the blue he tells me he's seeing someone else, and wants me to leave him alone. I feel hurt, like he is doing this out of spite, because I hurt him a couple months ago. Or hes just confused and is takeing the relationship for granted? I think that hes just trying to be a player and hell probably call me sometime whenever he feels like it. However I blocked his number so he cant call or text me. Its still hard and Im wondering if he will try to contact me. But I also think it is the best thing to cut him out. He doesnt want to commit to me and he never has for the 8 months we were seeing each other he refused to be my boyfriend. Im still wondering if he will try to contact me, however Ill never know since ive blocked him. Edited January 31, 2014 by amelady74
TooPatient Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Sounds like an issue I usually have, poor communication. Where's the communication breaking down at? You guys have had a bad start and it doesn't sound like you've had any real time together where both acknowledge it's a relationship. Nobody can say if he'll come back or not. Based on what you've said, yeah he might. I wouldn't wait though. If he does, and you decide to date him again, it'd be best to sit down and discuss expectations. 1
Author amelady74 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 yeah we really havent had any real time together, and our schedules were completely opposite, but I still felt he couldve tried to make an effort if he wanted to. The first time I left he then showed he missed me. so I wanted to work it out with him, and he still didnt want to be my boyfriend. super confusing. Then he tells me hes seeing someone else. So I blocked him to protect myself from the possibility he would try to contact me again at some point. I feel like he think I will put up with his behavior and take him back whenever he wants to come back around. So I feel that its best to block him from contacting me, so that I wont know weather or not he even makes an attempt. Because if I dont block him, Ill be checking my phone constantly, going crazy, becoming depressed, and unable to move on. This is what he wanted. 1
TooPatient Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 I can be the same way, always checking messages and such. I think that's a good move, blocking him. I'm sure there's some way he can reach you if he really wants to…but everything's been so wishy-washy, doesn't sound like a fun situation to be in. He had his chance a couple of times, no reason to give him a third. 2
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