kLPantera Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Good looking guy (avg 8/10 if that helps), intelligent, ambitious, confident, passionate, aesthetically muscular, etc. Met a girl at work, about a month ago. Got her # a week later with no problems. I'm not a big phone person, but when we do text. I'll get decent responses, never one word answers. She usually replies within 10 minutes. We talk, sometimes it feels great & others so-so. It's mostly personal things when we talk. Early on I would get bursts of eye contact, now it's become slightly more constant. She hasn't expressed any disinterest to me. When I do go talk to her, I have her attention. I asked her to do something with me 3 times now. First time she had a family vacation (which she did, so fine), second time I set myself up for failure, third time she says it depends. It 'depends' on if she has to go home (we're in uni) or not this weekend. I'll admit I"m often aloof... and have a lack for sensitivity. Is this just not interested? Sometimes it feels like she is, sometimes she's not, & I'm becoming annoyed. There are some older women here, who want me to date their daughter. Yet, here's this one and I can't figure anything out.
Philosoraptor Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 So have you asked her out? If she says yes, great. If she says no, great. Either way you can stop living in this state of limbo.
Poppygoodwill Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 If you're aloof and lack sensitivity, then perhaps you're sending her mixed signals? Could this be the case? And if it is, what could you do differently to make the signal loud and clear that you'd like to go out with her?
snowman90 Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 I think she is interested at least somehow because you didn't get a NO. Go up to her and ask her out directly. Should work the best
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