NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 LOL you don't even need to buy her jack diddly squat. Just tell her that she's so useless she can't afford her own things. They always get defensive when you make them feel like they're just walking useless human flesh. Even if she walks out on you it's for the better, you're just dating her because she's pretty. That's the price YOU pay for being superficial.
Author Mark1 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 LOL you don't even need to buy her jack diddly squat. Just tell her that she's so useless she can't afford her own things. They always get defensive when you make them feel like they're just walking useless human flesh. Even if she walks out on you it's for the better, you're just dating her because she's pretty. That's the price YOU pay for being superficial. so what do you say? text her again, she if she wants to get laid?
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 I'm a control freak. If she doesn't text you, I wouldn't make the initiative. With these types of women it's all about the upper-hand and who has the "power", if she has it she's going to be turned off and wouldn't want to see you. If you have it she'll stay interested. It's a lost cause at this point. I would just take this as a learning experience and move on. If you want to date beautiful women you just have to treat them like you're not phased with their looks cause that ALWAYS bothers them. Hahahah I'll be honest, I wish I could catfish for you...I'd be able to get some women to have sex with you on a first meeting. If you're decently attractive, online women ARE so easy to seduce.
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 I can't believe some of the advice you're getting on here. Amazing. The woman told you she wasn't ready for intimate touching when you touched her leg, and guys are telling you you should have done even more. The woman told you point blank that she's not having sex with you tonight, and did not invite you in, and guys on here are telling you you should have pressured her and gone for it anyway. Some even tell you to make crude insults to her. Can men really be this clueless? She gave you a try, maybe out of curiosity, and then realized she couldn't go through with it. That's all. 1
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Wow -- clueless? Is that the best you can come up with? I wouldn't give advice that didn't work so maybe if you used some logic you would realize that I am telling him things that have worked time and time again with dumb gold-digging women like her. I obviously speak from experience and not out of my ass so you need to check yourself. The woman is BLATANTLY playing mind-games and this dude didn't play it back. It's not my fault that some of you women like doing the stupid cat and mouse game instead of being honest and just have an innocent good time without saying all these CLEARLY OUTLANDISH rules. She put this guy on a rollercoaster and he just wanted to take her out for a nice time. She wanted to be a useless POS by flaunting her PROBABLY leased 86k mercedes and telling him that she likes to reject men on OKCupid so she could make him realize that he's a lucky SOB on a date with a beautiful woman. OH N***A PLEASE, how is that not a game? You're the one that's clueless thinking all women are good. HAHAHHAHAHHA You know Mr. Rogers Land of Make Believe only lasts for 30 minutes. 2
Author Mark1 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 thanks for the support Sean, I do feel played a bit.
lesbihonest Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 thanks for the support Sean, I do feel played a bit. Don't feel played -- just think of it this way, she's 40+ years old, past her prime trying to live like she's 20 thinking men actually WANT to be with her long term and NOT realizing that she's just a c*m bucket to them. It's utterly pathetic. Next time, I would just recommend taking time to know someone before you jump the gun and meet them in person. It's just better to avoid trash like this altogether and find someone that will appreciate your efforts and want to make your time equally meaningful.
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 thanks for the support Sean, I do feel played a bit. You live and learn man, just don't always date a woman for her looks. It usually isn't worth the time.
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Wow -- clueless? Is that the best you can come up with? I wouldn't give advice that didn't work so maybe if you used some logic you would realize that I am telling him things that have worked time and time again with dumb gold-digging women like her. I obviously speak from experience and not out of my ass so you need to check yourself. The woman is BLATANTLY playing mind-games and this dude didn't play it back. It's not my fault that some of you women like doing the stupid cat and mouse game instead of being honest and just have an innocent good time without saying all these CLEARLY OUTLANDISH rules. lol. The only women that fall for stupid PUA crap are young, stupid, naive women who don't know any better and have low self esteem. Your blatant, over-the-top insults are not going to work with more experienced women with high self esteem. That would get you a slap in the face, or a door slammed in your face. This woman is experienced, over 40, confident and wealthy. She's not going to fall for ridiculous, immature PUA crap. She put this guy on a rollercoaster and he just wanted to take her out for a nice time. She wanted to be a useless POS by flaunting her PROBABLY leased 86k mercedes and telling him that she likes to reject men on OKCupid so she could make him realize that he's a lucky SOB on a date with a beautiful woman. OH N***A PLEASE, how is that not a game? She told him up front that she was high maintenance, that she expected to be treated like a princess, and was considering if he fit the bill. Then she realized her little experiment wasn't what she expected, so she ended it. You're the one that's clueless thinking all women are good. HAHAHHAHAHHA You know Mr. Rogers Land of Make Believe only lasts for 30 minutes. I didn't say she was good. I said she wasn't interested and not naive enough to be manipulated.
Author Mark1 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 She told him up front that she was high maintenance, that she expected to be treated like a princess, and was considering if he fit the bill. Then she realized her little experiment wasn't what she expected, so she ended it. what did she expect?
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 lol. The only women that fall for stupid PUA crap are young, stupid, naive women who don't know any better and have low self esteem. Your blatant, over-the-top insults are not going to work with more experienced women with high self esteem. That would get you a slap in the face, or a door slammed in your face. This woman is experienced, over 40, confident and wealthy. She's not going to fall for ridiculous, immature PUA crap. PUAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAHAH you want to know the ironic thing about all of this. I have never once read that piece of that garbage and I think PUA is a waste of time. The fact that you go ahead and just assumed all of that clearly shows you don't know what you're talking about. I have dated PLENTY of experienced women with high self-esteem and every single one of those women WOULD NEVER treat this man the way this woman did. Hell if a woman wouldn't say pull that bullcrap on him why on God's name would I tell him to talk to her that way. She's gaming and she's playing mind games, he doesn't need to treat her like anything more than trash. You treat others as to how they treat you. Do you like not understand what rationalization and logic means? She told him up front that she was high maintenance, that she expected to be treated like a princess, and was considering if he fit the bill. Then she realized her little experiment wasn't what she expected, so she ended it. I didn't say she was good. I said she wasn't interested and not naive enough to be manipulated. She tells how she likes to live HER life that she likes to spoil herself, if she was to be upfront then she would've told him that she likes to be CODDLED by her man and have him pay his way. You want to be an immature little brat and leave dumb breadcrumbs like that then that's a mind-game right there. The fact that you even THINK she's doing an experiment confirms EVERYTHING that I have said. He wasn't even manipulating her he was damn shy and didn't know what to do when this woman was just plain garbage to begin with. Why the hell should he be honest with her if she just goes around and experiments with men. Kathy are you a man in real life? 1
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 @KATHRYN PUAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAHAH you want to know the ironic thing about all of this. I have never once read that piece of that garbage and I think PUA is a waste of time. The fact that you went ahead and just assumed all of that clearly shows you don't know what you're talking about. I have dated PLENTY of experienced women with high self-esteem and every single one of those women WOULD NEVER treat this man the way this woman did. Hell if a woman was confident, wealthy, SHE CLEARLY doesn't need a man to pamper her. If she didn't pull that bullcrap on him why on God's name would I tell him to talk to her that way. She's gaming and she's playing mind games, he doesn't need to treat her like anything more than trash. You treat others as to how they treat you. Do you like not understand what rationalization and logic means?
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 what did she expect? Either she was looking for the whole package in a young stud (handsome, sexy, plenty of money, intellectually stimulating, charming, etc.) and you didn't meet that criteria in her opinion, or she figured she'd give a young guy a try as an experiment and found it to be not a good match. Most mature women want their equal. She may have decided to give it a try and then realized it was not a good match. Most women that age would find men of your age to be too immature. Maybe she just thought she would give it a try, and then realized it wouldn't work, and that it was not what she wanted.
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 what did she expect? LOL mark, you want me to be honest, this woman probably just wanted to score a free meal from you. There are LOTS of women on dating sites that purposely schedule dates with men they are not interested just so they could get free dinners. You don't believe me? Google the topic and see for yourself. Some women have OPENLY admitted to this. Think real hard, KathyM AGREES that she's experimenting with you. WHY ON EARTH would you show a woman like that ANY respect. Why SHOULD you talk to her like a normal human being if she's not treating you like one? Seriously. Look at what comes out of KathyM's mouth, she didn't even think for one moment that MAYBE I treat women the way they treat me; if one treats me like GOLD I will treat her like GOLD...if she treats me like garbage, I will treat her like garbage. Kathy the fact that you even mention PUA clearly shows you're not a confident woman. LOL you'd have to look up that stuff to protect yourself from clearly transparent d-bag men HAHHAHA how sad for you.
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Either she was looking for the whole package in a young stud (handsome, sexy, plenty of money, intellectually stimulating, charming, etc.) and you didn't meet that criteria in her opinion, or she figured she'd give a young guy a try as an experiment and found it to be not a good match. Most mature women want their equal. She may have decided to give it a try and then realized it was not a good match. Most women that age would find men of your age to be too immature. Maybe she just thought she would give it a try, and then realized it wouldn't work, and that it was not what she wanted. Oh yeah so that's why on a first meeting it's cool to tell a man how she rejects TONS of guys on OKCupid and decides to casually tell a story about how she rejected a man because he didn't pay for her on a first date. Way up there with a man bragging to a girl on a first date on how much money he makes or what car he drives. That's a REALLY mature thing to say on a first date. Hey Kathy, if the apocalypse comes tell me which rock you're staying at cause it seems you've been living under it for I don't know how many years. 1
Author Mark1 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 Actually, I agree with both Sean and Kathy on this one - is that allowed? LOL
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Actually, I agree with both Sean and Kathy on this one - is that allowed? LOL Listen, in the end you need to figure out what you want. You want a relationship or you want to just get laid? If you wanted a relationship, then you shouldn't let her talk to you that way and you should avoid women like this. If you just wanted to get laid with this dusty muffin, then she's really no different than a long-game high priced prostitute although I don't understand why you would want to stick around for that when there are impressionable young women with better looks that you could have sexual encounters with
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 LOL mark, you want me to be honest, this woman probably just wanted to score a free meal from you. There are LOTS of women on dating sites that purposely schedule dates with men they are not interested just so they could get free dinners. You don't believe me? Google the topic and see for yourself. Some women have OPENLY admitted to this. lol. A self entitled princess driving an expensive Mercedes doesn't need to bother to get ready for a date in order to get your chicken dinner. Her hairdo for the date probably cost more than the dinner bill. Think real hard, KathyM AGREES that she's experimenting with you. WHY ON EARTH would you show a woman like that ANY respect. Why SHOULD you talk to her like a normal human being if she's not treating you like one? Seriously. Look at what comes out of KathyM's mouth, she didn't even think for one moment that MAYBE I treat women the way they treat me; if one treats me like GOLD I will treat her like GOLD...if she treats me like garbage, I will treat her like garbage. Kathy the fact that you even mention PUA clearly shows you're not a confident woman. LOL you'd have to look up that stuff to protect yourself from clearly transparent d-bag men HAHHAHA how sad for you. I look up that stuff because some of my inexperienced male clients talk about using it. I'm a happily married woman with plenty of self esteem. No woman with self respect and self esteem would put up with being treated badly.
Imported Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Either she was looking for the whole package in a young stud (handsome, sexy, plenty of money, intellectually stimulating, charming, etc.) and you didn't meet that criteria in her opinion, or she figured she'd give a young guy a try as an experiment and found it to be not a good match. Most mature women want their equal. She may have decided to give it a try and then realized it was not a good match. Most women that age would find men of your age to be too immature. Maybe she just thought she would give it a try, and then realized it wouldn't work, and that it was not what she wanted. Look, you seem to be clueless about a lot of other women. Some of them are just looking to ****. Oh yeah. And they need an excuse to not feel like a slut. 2
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Oh yeah so that's why on a first meeting it's cool to tell a man how she rejects TONS of guys on OKCupid and decides to casually tell a story about how she rejected a man because he didn't pay for her on a first date. Way up there with a man bragging to a girl on a first date on how much money he makes or what car he drives. That's a REALLY mature thing to say on a first date. Hey Kathy, if the apocalypse comes tell me which rock you're staying at cause it seems you've been living under it for I don't know how many years. Charming. I'm sure you're quite a hit with the ladies with the abusive and manipulative attitude you seem to have.
KathyM Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Look, you seem to be clueless about a lot of other women. Some of them are just looking to ****. Oh yeah. And they need an excuse to not feel like a slut. If all she was looking for was a f*ck, then she would have done that, now wouldn't she?
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 lol. A self entitled princess driving an expensive Mercedes doesn't need to bother to get ready for a date in order to get your chicken dinner. Her hairdo for the date probably cost more than the dinner bill. I look up that stuff because some of my inexperienced male clients talk about using it. I'm a happily married woman with plenty of self esteem. No woman with self respect and self esteem would put up with being treated badly. Uhh herpa derp derp...how does she know she's getting a chicken dinner if BEFORE the date she's EXPECTING a 5 star meal. A self-entitled princess driving a mercedes would NEVER FATHOM that he would take her to KFC. Her game is so transparent, it's already unspoken that most men would take a woman to a 5 star restaurant. And by that unspoken rule, she purposely exploits on purpose so she can keep eating good and reject guys. You're just pissed cause this crap is so easy to figure out. This woman is clearly trash, treated this guy like dirt and you STILL think he needs to be a gentleman to her? LOLOLOL I feel sorry for the lap dog that has to put up with your crap. And ANY woman with self respect and self-esteem would NEVER in their right mind treat that guy the way she did. Guy wants to take her out on a nice time and half the date he has to listen to her OUTLANDISH rules? HAHHAHAHHAHA OK. You know what's sad? Is that you make a living out of advising people and Mark here believes BOTH of us. I'm not a counselor. LOL food for thought. And oh I am in a happy relationship with a confident woman who doesn't need to be pampered with materialistic gifts to make her feel special. The time I spend with her is all she wants. And I BET you my yearly salary she looks better than that hag he dated and you're just mad because you're a dusty old muffin like her lol. 1
Quiet Storm Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 LOL mark, you want me to be honest, this woman probably just wanted to score a free meal from you. There are LOTS of women on dating sites that purposely schedule dates with men they are not interested just so they could get free dinners. You don't believe me? Google the topic and see for yourself. Some women have OPENLY admitted to this. Think real hard, KathyM AGREES that she's experimenting with you. WHY ON EARTH would you show a woman like that ANY respect. Why SHOULD you talk to her like a normal human being if she's not treating you like one? Seriously. Look at what comes out of KathyM's mouth, she didn't even think for one moment that MAYBE I treat women the way they treat me; if one treats me like GOLD I will treat her like GOLD...if she treats me like garbage, I will treat her like garbage. Kathy the fact that you even mention PUA clearly shows you're not a confident woman. LOL you'd have to look up that stuff to protect yourself from clearly transparent d-bag men HAHHAHA how sad for you. Even if she is an insecure, manipulative user trying to get a free dinner, treating a person like garbage says more about you than her. Your desire to retaliate instead of just letting it go could also be seen as pathetic. You get joy and satisfaction from embarrassing someone. A secure person with a strong character's actions remain consistent and civil, regardless of the behavior of others. 1
NYSean Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 Charming. I'm sure you're quite a hit with the ladies with the abusive and manipulative attitude you seem to have. Hahaha I'm manipulative? And what is this woman doing to this guy and her little "experiments" You're a tool. I don't need to manipulate women because I wouldn't take an age-old cheese like her seriously. I actually date women who have respect for themselves and for the men they want to be with. I date women who believe in meaningful relationships that foster mutual growth and improvement. I date women that would appreciate every little effort I put into the relationship that I give her. I wouldn't need to be a prick to a woman that is nice, devoted, modest, and caring. Like I said, you lack logic and the fact that you actually make a business out of advising people clearly shows that in America, any idiot can have a job. 1
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