AirForceWife038 Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 All of my husbands contact with the OW was through texts which he deleted and sprint can't give copies of, and phone calls. When I tricked him to say I was getting copies that is when he told me that he talked bad about me and told her several times that he wished he was with her when he was with me. He said she was like a drug that he couldn't get enough of and every little thing I did that annoyed him he complained to her about. I wish I could read them, maybe then it would sink in faster.
whatatangledweb Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 I saw the emails. She would push for things about me. Such as she stalked me online and found a picture of me a few months before the affair was outed. So it was high school crap. Do you think she is prettier than me? I know she is prettier than me. She has really big breasts and mine are small. Do you like hers better?..He replied back. My wife is pretty. I am not discussing her with you. Another one was ..If she made you happy then you wouldn't be with me. He replied back..She has nothing to do with why I did this. I am not discussing her with you. It was things like that he either ignored it or if she kept writing the same thing over and over. He always replied I am not discussing my wife with you. She tried to get him to say she was better in this or that or say digs at me. He never did it in the hundreds of emails I saw. I'm just glad at least he didn't slam me. I didn't need that extra hurt. 3
PoopHappens Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 I saw some doozies. There were references about me, but mostly to make excuses. What made me laugh though, is after the relationship had be going for a while, my WW, actually berated the OM for something he couldn't have possibly been aware of. Something that had happened to me countless times, despite many conversations to the effect that I simply can't read minds. I almost felt sorry for the dick wade.
seren Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 I was sent them, I burned them. I didn't need to read what was written, that there had been an A was enough for me. Besides, that most had been sent while either was in the bathroom while me and the OW's BS were unaware it all felt rather sleazy and I reckoned anything said would be of that ilk.
kalimata Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 This would have been difficult for me (as a BH) to see direct references to me in the emails, texts, etc. However I didn't see anything. The mind movies and recurring flashbacks however are enough.
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