julesmb606 Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 After reading some posts on NC i am in my second day. I have deleted his numbers and some of his pictures. I am not totally comfortable with deleting all of them just yet. Taking baby steps for now. I hate that I am analyzing all the time. I keep rehashing things and trying to figure out why. I found myself getting angry lastnight about the break up. I wish he would have fought for us. I must sound silly saying this but it`s how I feel.
OpheliaSong Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 It isn't silly. This is still painful to you and it isn't something you get over quickly. You will get there.
stillfiguringitallou Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 That's not silly at all! It's natural to wish that someone you have the urge to fight for - wants to fight for you. Dumper or Dumpee you experience those emotions. (((HUGS))) it gets easier - and time makes it easier - I cried everyday the first week - then it was every two to three days - yesterday was the first day I broke down in over a week. It does get better.
jphcbpa Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 NC is for you. A way to evolve and evaluate 1
Gaveeverything Posted January 31, 2014 Posted January 31, 2014 After reading some posts on NC i am in my second day. I have deleted his numbers and some of his pictures. I am not totally comfortable with deleting all of them just yet. Taking baby steps for now. I hate that I am analyzing all the time. I keep rehashing things and trying to figure out why. I found myself getting angry lastnight about the break up. I wish he would have fought for us. I must sound silly saying this but it`s how I feel. I personally did it a little more extreme. The instant that my now ex-gf called and broke it off with me after nearly a year. I instantly deleted all photos in my phone, deactivated all social media, removed everything from my apartment that was hers or ours (pictures, gifts, clothes, toiletry items) put them in a bag and then put the bag in a box in my closet where it wont be seen, instantly deleted her number out of my phone so i wont be tempted to contact her, and initiated a strict NC commitment. Currently on day 4 and I get a "breadcrumb" from her "(picture) saw this and thought it would be cute for your mom to have in her car. Hope your having a good day at school". I have not responded, came here read the NC guide, its a textbook breadcrumb. it doesn't require a response(her favorite phrase for the texts i would send her, and never hear anything back while we were dating). Anything short of the most sincere message about me and wanting to get back together(even then i would be very hesitant) will not get a response from me. 2
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