Danger Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 That brings up another interesting point; fear. Relevant to the topic at hand, it's entirely possible that why the man won't pay is because it's his style and he has no fear of walking or being 'walked' (left) for his decision. It's his style, he's not afraid of the consequences, and sticks with it. In man-speak, that's having 'balls'. Will some women avoid him or leave him or disparage him privately and/or publicly? Yes! That's life. I have had great success with it. While you won't hear many women actually "say it", they tend to love men who know their own self-worth and will walk away from a bad deal. That would include those want all of the benefits of "equality" but none of the responsbility. 1
Dusk1983 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 I'm in a good job and support myself etc. Yeah, but who wants to "support themselves" when there's the prospect of free stuff? And who doesn't like free stuff?
Cunning-Linguist Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 If I met this woman online, then I'd take a few days to get to know her. Considering there are a lot of women out there who purposely go on dates with men they are not attracted to simply to get free meals, we'd have to be careful. If I find that she is a great person, doesn't expect much, humble, and has a potential for something meaningful then I'd be more than happy to pay for the first few dates. Simply put, I'm the one inviting her out, I should be the one that pays. What I'm trying to say is, a woman should make me feel that I WANT to pay for her, not SHOULD pay for her. I say this because I feel showing a woman a nice evening out is a great gesture and it makes me feel good to put in this effort. I want this to be a no-brainer for me, if at all on a date I'm even questioning whether or not I should pay for a woman then clearly the woman is NOT for me. If a woman however, brings this issue up on a date or tells me how I should take her out? Then I automatically will cancel and turn around and walk home. I don't have much tolerance for any false sense of entitlement. 1
Phantom888 Posted February 13, 2014 Posted February 13, 2014 My GF and I decided to buy a new SUV together because we have too many kids to fit comfortably in our sedan. Went to the dealership last night. Found the perfect car for us. We decided to split it 50/50 since we will both drive it. She write a check for $20,000, and I wrote a check for $20,000. That's it. This is the only time I'll split the bill because it's for all of us.
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