amy1525 Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Meet this guy who works at my local cafe about 3 years ago, we got talking about general stuff at first. Then about a year ago, we found out we had quite a few common interest so would talk about them. Only talked when we saw each other at his work, but became what I thought was friends. He even did all the whole staring/gazing at me for more than 40secs and even made a compliment on 2 different times saying I was a really polite person and always went out of his way with customer services for me compared to other customers their. None of his other workmates went above and beyond like this and I noticed he did seem quite confident around other customers but seem sort of different around me. Then about 6months ago he left he didn't tell me he was leaving I only found because I heard an old couple on the next table to me talking about him leaving. Why would he not of told me he was leaving. I know where not like best of friends, but we did get on really well. So a few weeks after I was searching for someone on Facebook and came across his page so decide to add him. He accepted, but he's never messaged me and said anything almost like he never new me/we've never spoke. In that time he's like one of my fb status and I've liked a few of his. I've also notice in my fb news feed that he likes other girls pics and status. But never likes mine and some of the girls pics that he likes he doesn't know them any more than me. I've never been able to like any of his pics because he never uploads any Why? We haven't seen each other in person since he left I know that he's single and has been for about 4years and that he's not into drink, smoking and partying and would rather spend time at home with his family so I know he's not a player or anything What did I do wrong as we seem to get on really well. Now it's like I don't even exist/he never even met me 1
Philosoraptor Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I'd say no, he's not interested. A better question to ask is why are you so worried about what this guy thinks? He left without saying anything to you and has never messaged you on facebook since you added him. You didn't do anything wrong. He just didn't have an intimate attraction to you. You weren't that close so it's not odd that he wouldn't keep in contact. 1
confusedsoul14 Posted February 1, 2014 Posted February 1, 2014 If you like this guy, then you should talk to him and find out if he is interested in you. If you guys got on really well before, then talking to him shouldn't be a weird thing to do. Start by catching up and stuff and then move on to more intimate topics. It might be that he thought you are not interested in him and so he backed off. In this case, if you should him interest he might open up to you. If not, then he was never interested in you and you can move on knowing the whole story.
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