soulific Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 Is interpreting body language viable? Like can you really tell if a girl likes you from it? Im getting all the signs, from about 3 girls. The glances, looks, eye contact, playing with hair around me, or after she sees me, adjusting clothes after she sees me, copying me (coughs), thrusting her breasts out, sitting next to me, feet always pointed toward me when they are crossed or not. But the only thing I havent gotten is a true smile yet, maybe cause i dont smile??? so are these signs really viable or it varies from girl to girl? I tried seeing what other girls wear playing with their hair. No other girls do. I dont often see girls just sitting there and play with their hair out of no where. So what does it mean?
alphamale Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 yes body language does give away a lot and it is pretty accurate. you have to look for a bunch of signals together that are directed at yourself and not just every dude. the playing with the hair thing is huge. i see it many times every day, mainly cause i'm an OK lookin' dude. they make eye contact with me and then adjust, flip or touch their hair. there are a lot of good books on sexual body language and it's all true cause I've seen it myself. Now if you are not that good lookin' a guy and women don't flirt with you then you would not see these signals a lot or maybe never but attractive people (both men and women) see the flirting body language cues many times per day and become experts at detecting it.
NiCoLe20 Posted January 14, 2005 Posted January 14, 2005 Originally posted by soulific Im getting all the signs, from about 3 girls. pimp it bro!
Author soulific Posted January 14, 2005 Author Posted January 14, 2005 Im not a super good looking guy more like average or less, but Ive been told I got mad style, i think Im more of the mysterious type hah. I like sneakers so I have over 100 pairs of shoes, So everyday I roll into class with a new pair of shoes, I never wear the same shoes twice. I could go on for about 4 months without wearing the same shoes twice. I notice that the girls always stare at my shoes =/. Is it true that shoes really matter that much? Same with clothes, I always match and never wear same thing twice, I notice other guys do. And about the signs given to me, theirs one girl that exhibits all the signs given. She gave me all the ones listed except a smile. And I would pimp it but its not in my personality to "pimp", Im just looking for a sole mate. I gotta say it even it though may sound cliche, im shy? Not really shy but I got a mild stutter, had one since I was a kid so that ish gets me nervous.
tiki Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 I totally believe it. Go for her. Sounds like you've seen all the right signs.
Author soulific Posted January 17, 2005 Author Posted January 17, 2005 But no smile......Can she be diggin me without smiling at me???
alphamale Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 Originally posted by soulific But no smile......Can she be diggin me without smiling at me??? Dude, the smile is the icing on the cake. You can still eat the cake without the icing.
Barby Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 I seriously believe you can tell a LOT by body language, maybe she was too nervous to smile.....it doesn't hurt to try and approach her, worst case scenario she isn't into you but at least you'll know.
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