bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 I don't know...i don't want to bother anyone else with this again...so i try and keep everything to myself...thank you bubbles for being here! Dont thank me buddy! I am here to listen infact we all are Keeping it to yourself will make you go crazy! You have to talk to someone, but, you're right...you don't want to talk to your friends so much that you piss them off and push them away. Post here. Vent when you need to vent - here....We're here for ya. Read it over and over ^ Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Thank you xUnknown!!! But I am worried about her man...i can't really believe that this can affect her more than me... i mean..well...i guess i got hurt and disappointed so much than i actually got pushed away from her...she just wasn't/ins't what i loved and it is killing me because it feels like i never knew her and it wasn't like this..i think..;x....I know i have to want her to move on as i loved her/ love her as much as i want her to be happy but i feel stupid...more like confused that is... Wait, I'm sorry, who dumped who? I think I may have missed something. When I said clearly its affecting her - I was referring to the fact that she is skipping classes and not showing up to them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 << Thank you bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 Wait, I'm sorry, who dumped who? I think I may have missed something. When I said clearly its affecting her - I was referring to the fact that she is skipping classes and not showing up to them. Yes..she is...well she left/dumped/ me...i waited for two weeks for an aswer whether there is hope and i guess there was/is no hope...during those two weeks,actually before i logged her i had cried my eyes out infront of the mirror and i had lost my mind completely...but...by the time we had to "talk" i kind of knew she was going to leave me... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 << Thank you bubbles Thanks I was on the verge of crying...And thanks for the song Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 Thanks I was on the verge of crying...And thanks for the song Don't cry please! Homeboy-Eric Church (With Lyrics).wmv - YouTube listen to this...just found it...sounds fun..!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Don't cry please! Homeboy-Eric Church (With Lyrics).wmv - YouTube listen to this...just found it...sounds fun..!!! Gosh..I wish I could talk to you on Pm or something. I just saw something. He kind of left a group thing on whatsapp, I had removed him and all but I still got a notification. I mean it hurts. It had me and he left because of me? I disgust him or something? Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 ahh gotcha. Yeah thats sort of how it happened for me. She asked for a "break" 2 weeks later it was done. You have to plan for the worst. Keeping hope only sets it back. You can start healing sooner then. The fact that you knew it was going to happen shows that you had already started that. You were prepared. Keep yourself focused in school, friends, going out. You'll want to vent, but you have to keep yourself busy. I was 2 weeks into house arrest when my ex broke up with me. Talk about a blow to the nuts. Not being able to go anywhere, drink, whoah...it sucked big time. Time will help you get over it all. Not sure what type of music you're into, but when I was younger (4 years ago) I hit a "hardcore" music type of phase. 6 months ago (before breakup) it sort of started back up as gym music. Its like electronic/hardcore (electrocore). Then this band came out with their new album. Its awesome. Band: I See Stars Album: New Deamons. I love EVERY song....but this one seems relevant. I would jam to this all the time. Check it out... Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Gosh..I wish I could talk to you on Pm or something. I just saw something. He kind of left a group thing on whatsapp, I had removed him and all but I still got a notification. I mean it hurts. It had me and he left because of me? I disgust him or something? I'm sure you didn't disgust him. He was probably doing what you were doing. Trying to block the contact of you to move on. He did the right thing in that case - for both of you... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 ahh gotcha. Yeah thats sort of how it happened for me. She asked for a "break" 2 weeks later it was done. You have to plan for the worst. Keeping hope only sets it back. You can start healing sooner then. The fact that you knew it was going to happen shows that you had already started that. You were prepared. Keep yourself focused in school, friends, going out. You'll want to vent, but you have to keep yourself busy. I was 2 weeks into house arrest when my ex broke up with me. Talk about a blow to the nuts. Not being able to go anywhere, drink, whoah...it sucked big time. Time will help you get over it all. . So am I..So am I ..Cant wait to get out. And exactly. Planning for the worst. Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 So am I..So am I ..Cant wait to get out. And exactly. Planning for the worst. wait, you're on house arrest too? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 ahh gotcha. Yeah thats sort of how it happened for me. She asked for a "break" 2 weeks later it was done. You have to plan for the worst. Keeping hope only sets it back. You can start healing sooner then. The fact that you knew it was going to happen shows that you had already started that. You were prepared. Keep yourself focused in school, friends, going out. You'll want to vent, but you have to keep yourself busy. I was 2 weeks into house arrest when my ex broke up with me. Talk about a blow to the nuts. Not being able to go anywhere, drink, whoah...it sucked big time. Time will help you get over it all. Not sure what type of music you're into, but when I was younger (4 years ago) I hit a "hardcore" music type of phase. 6 months ago (before breakup) it sort of started back up as gym music. Its like electronic/hardcore (electrocore). Then this band came out with their new album. Its awesome. Band: I See Stars Album: New Deamons. I love EVERY song....but this one seems relevant. I would jam to this all the time. Check it out... thank you, i appreciate it.!!! about the music...it is good..a bit too hard but enjoyable! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 Gosh..I wish I could talk to you on Pm or something. I just saw something. He kind of left a group thing on whatsapp, I had removed him and all but I still got a notification. I mean it hurts. It had me and he left because of me? I disgust him or something? No bubbles, you don't disgust him...i think xUnknow is right...it is for your own good that he left...believe me you shouldn't spend so much time thinking on that right now...Smile! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 wait, you're on house arrest too? Somewhat Yea, uni is off, dont really have friends to go out with at the moment. And cant leave the home (personal issues) Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 (edited) thank you, i appreciate it.!!! about the music...it is good..a bit too hard but enjoyable! haha, no worries. I'm not a fan of the screaming part (yeah I know, the whole point of the music- right? lol), but more of the music part, the breakdowns and drops, lyrics and especially where the electronic part kicks a lot half way through the song. Edited January 29, 2014 by xUnknown 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 No bubbles, you don't disgust him...i think xUnknow is right...it is for your own good that he left...believe me you shouldn't spend so much time thinking on that right now...Smile! I am okay dont worry you take care of yourself.! Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Somewhat Yea, uni is off, dont really have friends to go out with at the moment. And cant leave the home (personal issues) ahh gotcha. Yeah you've gotta find a new hobby. Something to keep you occupied. I used to play guitar and I started playing again. Gotta keep that mind busy. I seriously was going nuts, day in and day out...it was terrible. Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 ahh gotcha. Yeah you've gotta find a new hobby. Something to keep you occupied. I used to play guitar and I started playing again. Gotta keep that mind busy. I seriously was going nuts, day in and day out...it was terrible. I am still trying to find a new hobby which doesnt remind me of HIM. Till now no success but only LS has helped me keep my mind of things till now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 I am still trying to find a new hobby which doesnt remind me of HIM. Till now no success but only LS has helped me keep my mind of things till now. Let it keep doing that..I was a lurker during my "break" with my ex, then joined and it's helped me so much on healing. It'll do the same for you too. How do you feel about art? Why not start drawing. It'll be a good way for you to express whatever is on your mind. I do it sometimes - even though I'm not as good as I used to be back in the day when I was a kid. Start a journal too. That has helped me a lot.! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Let it keep doing that..I was a lurker during my "break" with my ex, then joined and it's helped me so much on healing. It'll do the same for you too. How do you feel about art? Why not start drawing. It'll be a good way for you to express whatever is on your mind. I do it sometimes - even though I'm not as good as I used to be back in the day when I was a kid. Start a journal too. That has helped me a lot.! I dont want to go near ART! Its linked to him, he used to encourage me to draw and paint so no, not Art even though I like doing it. And Journal sounds like a nice idea. Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 I dont want to go near ART! Its linked to him, he used to encourage me to draw and paint so no, not Art even though I like doing it. And Journal sounds like a nice idea. okay definitely no art then lol. Yes, do a journal. I haven't written in mine in a while, but it definitely does help. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 xUnknow...i play the guitar too man !! And about art...I encouraged my ex to draw and paint...lol... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 okay definitely no art then lol. Yes, do a journal. I haven't written in mine in a while, but it definitely does help. Yea journal is okay and sometimes I am busy whatsapping my old friends (trying to make ammends) xUnknow...i play the guitar too man !! And about art...I encouraged my ex to draw and paint...lol... :lmao: So did my ex..So did my ex.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted January 29, 2014 Author Share Posted January 29, 2014 OK...i can't get her out of my mind right now...;x Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Oh god..I am here.. Talk to me Discover I am all ears and I got crumbs as well so we are on same boat Link to post Share on other sites
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