Ms1227 Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 (edited) Hey what's up guys, I just wanna explain my situation to get some advice and help me get my story off my chest. So I was dating this girl for about a year. My previous relationship was about 4 years and that hurt like hell when it ended, so I told myself I wouldn't let myself get hurt again. After my previous relationship I was single for about two years. I met this new girl and things started off really well. I could tell she was very different from any other girl I have dated. Super hot, very sweet blah blah blah. A month into it I started to notice that a few things weren't right with her. She came from a very normal family, but she had some depression issues and was on a few different medications. All last year she would cry all the time, put me down etc. but I loved her so I stuck through it. She did a lot worse things than that but I won't go into detail. She lives right down the hall from me so we were always together. I was the perfect boyfriend too her. I paid for everything, bought her jewerly, flowers, etc. made her dinner everynight . Treated her like a ****ing princess. Last June she went home for the summer which is about 6 hours away. I would visit her all the time, and our relationship was going well except for the issues she had. She is the type of girl who needs attention all the time. So over the summer she was hanging out with tons of guys flirting etc. but never cheated. She came back and told me she wanted to marry me. I was super excited. 3 days after she came back I looked at her phone cause I had a feeling something wasn't right. I found out she made out with her ex two weeks before she was going to come back. I was like what the ****. I had to find out that way really? I forgave her because she was really sorry and all that crap. And I kept in mind that she is young and dumb. She is 21 and I'm almost 25. Things were going good again. Until two months later she gets a new job from some older guy in her class. I'm like oh great. Of course she says there just friends blah blah horse****. A week later I see her phone again and she is talking to her friend about this guy. She's like if he made a move on me I'd play it by ear and see what happens. Two days before thanksgiving I confront her about it and she dumps me. ( I'm leaving out a lot of **** cause the story is long) anyways it sucks because I have never treated a girl so good in my life and to get **** on like this hurts!! She says it's my fault cause I looked through her phone? Yea ok?.. I'm glad I did cause I can read people when they ****ing lie. I work where I live so I have to see her every ****ing day with her new dude who by the way looks like a old creeper ****tard. I would have been over it by now if I didn't have to see her all the time. And two days ago she has the nerve to text me and ask if I have a charger to a nice electric wine opener I bought her? What a bitch. I told her today to delete my number and **** off. She says I'll never change? I didn't do anything wrong in the first place. She told me that she used me as a biproduct to make her happy now. She is no longer on meds or depressed anymore? I don't believe the depression part. Sorry for cussing it just irritates me. I just needed to vent to someone hah. It's sucks cause I still love her , I have no idea why though. Her biggest thing was wanting to be friends after we broke up. It's impossible to be friends with someone who hurt you. Do you agree? Oh well thanks for reading. Edited January 29, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs
Philosoraptor Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 Well congrats for not wasting any more of your time with this nut. She's a cheater who takes no responsibility for her own actions. She's going to be a mess for a long time and likely bounce from one relationship to another. While you on the other hand are going to take care of yourself, find happiness in your own life, stop thinking about her totally, and move on. 3
xUnknown Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 Yeah, good thing you moved on. Sounds like she just didn't appreciate a think she had. She's trying to convince herself that you were the bad person. This is the type of person that years down the road, jobless, living at home, they'll finally realize the **** they did and passed up. Stay strong and move on my friend
Author Ms1227 Posted January 29, 2014 Author Posted January 29, 2014 Thanks guys!! It still hurts like hell but I know I am the better person and its her loss!!!
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