Teeshonator Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 So I've been talking to a guy online for a of couple months. It hasn't always been 'sexy talk', initially it was, then he started texting me for normal chats and etc. We actually got to know each other quite well, and I made it clear I am not interested in JUST SEX, I want a relationship. He said he would be interested in more once I lived closer (I was living in a different province, with plans to move closer to him anyways). Now, I've moved closer. We hung out. Had sex. (oops). We were both a bit nervous, and he was clearly awkward immediately afterwards. He had to go, which he voiced before we did anything. Afterwards, he didn't really talk to me the rest of the day - busy? or awkward? I don't really know, he did say he came down with food poisoning after spending the last week in Mexico. Then the next day (today) he was talking to me fine, still ill, still not exactly normal. So I flat out asked him if What was going on, he replied with he wasn't sure, that he felt strange after and still did. That he was sorry he couldn't explain better. I am fully prepared for this being a one night stand situation, but I sort of thought he was better then that... and why would he keep talking to me if this was the case? My close friends suspect that maybe all he wanted was sex, but ended up liking me, and is now freaking out. Whats up?? Any insight?
mammasita Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 Need more info: Did you have sex the first time you met in person?
Author Teeshonator Posted January 29, 2014 Author Posted January 29, 2014 Need more info: Did you have sex the first time you met in person? YES. I broke my one rule.
mammasita Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 YES. I broke my one rule. Unfortunately, I don't think he's being awkward. He got what he wanted. Regardless of what he said when you spoke for the time before you moved, that all went out the window when he had to do absolutely no work to get in your pants. I'd write this one off as a lesson learned. 1
Purepony Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 Ok ok where can i find easy women like this in la?
Author Teeshonator Posted January 29, 2014 Author Posted January 29, 2014 Ok ok where can i find easy women like this in la? Cheers. I'm not normally easy. I like him, and went for it. Perhaps you would get more attention if you didn't speak that way. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 I think he was in it for sex. If it was sexually-charge talk initially, that kind of already set the scene. He probably enjoyed general chit-chat but it doesn't appear he wants more than that. He may have told you he wants a relationship but some guys (and girls) will say just about anything to get what they want. If he truly liked you, I don't believe he'd tell you he felt "strange." 1
soccerrprp Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 (edited) It was for sex. As my gf reminded me just last night, if a guy is into you, there is no ambiguity. We guys are simple. Sorry. My gf says that this book is helpful: http://www.amazon.com/Act-Like-Lady-Think-Relationships/dp/0061728985 Edited January 29, 2014 by soccerrprp
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