spacey Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 I met a guy a few months ago and he seemed really into me.I would catch him staring at me often,always hang around me even if there are a dozen women around and he was doing a lot of things that showed signs of interest.When I told him I liked him,he said he was not ready for a relationship as he was coming out of an LTR.I presume he is just in the process of filing for divorce. Okie I end it and then ignore him and he gets upset that I am giving him mixed signals.Finally we ended up having a fight and we make up and then he said something about how we are not right for each other (Good Lord where did that come from ? ) and I went on to add "yeah..I agree..we can neither communicate and your anger scares me" and he goes " I will work on it...". Tired of his mixed signals,I broke off all contact with him and also we ended on a horrendous note given certain other things but yet my gut is telling me everyday for the last 3 months he will come back. He moved to a different city for work and will be back in March/April and I constantly feel he will come back. I have tried telling myself to STOP this stupid wishful thinking,met other men,created an online profile but yet a small voice in my head keeps telling me he did like you lot more than he would care to acknowledge and he will come back. How the hell do I move past this feeling ? I don't mind if he comes on his own but he has always been telling me he only likes me as a friend though his behavior is bang opposite. Any reason why I have this crazy gut feeling.
pickflicker Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 I met a guy a few months ago and he seemed really into me.I would catch him staring at me often,always hang around me even if there are a dozen women around and he was doing a lot of things that showed signs of interest.When I told him I liked him,he said he was not ready for a relationship as he was coming out of an LTR.I presume he is just in the process of filing for divorce. Okie I end it and then ignore him and he gets upset that I am giving him mixed signals.Finally we ended up having a fight and we make up and then he said something about how we are not right for each other (Good Lord where did that come from ? ) and I went on to add "yeah..I agree..we can neither communicate and your anger scares me" and he goes " I will work on it...". Tired of his mixed signals,I broke off all contact with him and also we ended on a horrendous note given certain other things but yet my gut is telling me everyday for the last 3 months he will come back. He moved to a different city for work and will be back in March/April and I constantly feel he will come back. I have tried telling myself to STOP this stupid wishful thinking,met other men,created an online profile but yet a small voice in my head keeps telling me he did like you lot more than he would care to acknowledge and he will come back. How the hell do I move past this feeling ? I don't mind if he comes on his own but he has always been telling me he only likes me as a friend though his behavior is bang opposite. Any reason why I have this crazy gut feeling. I don't see how his actions are incongruent with his words. He moved away and is doing his own thing and presumably, hasn't spoke to you. So I'm not sure how his actions are different from his words.
darkmoon Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 the gut is a fine signal, whether he is more decisive when he comes back, idk, at least hear him out with a smile
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