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is this guy a creep, pervert, or both?


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I'm kinda wondering if he is and I'm kinda thinking he might be. So anyways he's 26 and me 18 and we met at a party on Nye. I actually made excuses not to give him my number BUT he was so ****ing persistent that I caved in and said w/e and gave it.

 

 

So ANYWAYS.. we went out once to the movies to see paranormal 5 and he kept trying to make out but I said no and he was like cool w/e. Then we had a little convo last night about why he likes me and such right? He says that I remind him of someone. That kinda bugged me but w/e.

 

 

THEN.. he was getting texts from a girl and I wanted to see who it was and he kept saying it was his ex so I told him to dead her and he said he would but then I got the phone from him today when I asked to see some of his pics. That's when I got the other girl's number and texted her this eve and found out she's 15! I'm like wtf! Do I confront him or not? I feel a little weirded out right now.

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yep, creepy weirdo ditch this loser and get a real man not this poor excuse for one.

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Guy is a creep for the 15 year old thing. Agreed. But --

 

I actually made excuses not to give him my number BUT he was so ****ing persistent that I caved in and said w/e and gave it.[/Quote]

 

....

 

*facepalm*

 

THEN.. he was getting texts from a girl and I wanted to see who it was and he kept saying it was his ex so I told him to dead her

 

Why? Why did you care?

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I wouldn't worry about him. He'll be in jail soon.

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Guy is a creep for the 15 year old thing. Agreed. But --

 

 

 

....

 

*facepalm*

 

 

 

Why? Why did you care?

 

 

I cared because we was supposed to be talking BUT now I'm in the middle on how I feel about him. I'm gonna contact him now and ask him stuff ok.

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I cared because we was supposed to be talking BUT now I'm in the middle on how I feel about him. I'm gonna contact him now and ask him stuff ok.

 

 

He says he's sorry for being with her and he didn't know what he was doing and how she pursued him and stuff. Sounds legit?

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Never " cave" when a guy is persistent A man who doesn't take 'no' for an answer will never, ever fail, to disrespect you entirely.

 

Lose his number.

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He says he's sorry for being with her and he didn't know what he was doing and how she pursued him and stuff. Sounds legit?

 

 

I'm way older. Late 30's. Divorced. Last fling was 22. Current possible relationship is 19.

 

I like younger girls, but there is nothing legit about this guy.

 

At 15, he is way, way beyond a slight incursion into the improper. It's creepy, even to me.

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Don't even communicate with him anymore, just walk away.

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I'm kinda wondering if he is and I'm kinda thinking he might be. So anyways he's 26 and me 18 and we met at a party on Nye. I actually made excuses not to give him my number BUT he was so ****ing persistent that I caved in and said w/e and gave it.

 

 

So ANYWAYS.. we went out once to the movies to see paranormal 5 and he kept trying to make out but I said no and he was like cool w/e. Then we had a little convo last night about why he likes me and such right? He says that I remind him of someone. That kinda bugged me but w/e.

 

 

THEN.. he was getting texts from a girl and I wanted to see who it was and he kept saying it was his ex so I told him to dead her and he said he would but then I got the phone from him today when I asked to see some of his pics. That's when I got the other girl's number and texted her this eve and found out she's 15! I'm like wtf! Do I confront him or not? I feel a little weirded out right now.

 

 

Dating a 15 year old girl at 26? Even that's pushing the envelope; ask anyone. :cool:

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Just walk away. This is all nonsense.

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In answer to your question - he's both.

And you are being naive if you can't see that.

Walk away from this one.

very, very fast.

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He's a creepy, pushy pervert.

 

I keep getting a mental image of Quagmire.

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He says he's sorry for being with her and he didn't know what he was doing and how she pursued him and stuff. Sounds legit?

 

No, it absolutely does not. Period.

 

Drop this guy. His behaviour is highly inappropriate and unacceptable. And now he's trying to justify it and manipulate you by claiming she's perusing him. Please. What a loser. OP, you can do better.

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