BrunetteBabe1005 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Thank you all for commenting on my previous forum, about the "Was I being rude or over-reacting?" I appreciate everyones advice and everyone can still comment on that forum. I am just giving an update and see what your opinion on it is. I appreciate any input, thanks. Well like I said on my previous forum. I was gonna text him to see if we are "cool" with each other, cause I was saying I would rather have distance but be on good terms than have distance and tension. Well I haven't texted or spoke to him since Saturday, but when I was about to text him, I noticed on Facebook him and this girl Rachael (the one that treated him like crap and broke up with but now I guess is with her) They both were doing cutesy, jokey type stuff to each other. It was so excessive, and I don't know if he was trying to get to me or what? He seemed a little passive aggressive on the one post he posted a goofy pic and said "These are the dinners you owe me Rachael for rudely hanging up on me all the time, lol!" Like they are doing cutesy things on Facebook that makes me sick, cause he seems to be kissing her ass. I don't want my ass to be kissed, but in the same breathe he hasn't contacted me after that went down he just replied with "Oh" 9 hours later, but even if he did that cause he was awkward about it, I still would just contact the person to make sure everything is ok and I would say something like "Hey are we cool?" I wouldn't just say "Oh" So I guess he's telling me he doesn't care. I'm sorry but if it's anyone that should be praised it's me cause I have done sooo much for him it's unreal! I have stood up for him, and I did everything a good friend would do, but yet this girl Rachael gets so much attention and they are acting so obnoxious and cutesy it's disgusting! They are doing this all over Facebook. Then on Instagram he changed his profile pic to him and Rachael. I don't even want to text him now. I am so mad. He's kissing her ass, when she has been nothing but a bitch to him this whole entire time, but yet someone like me who cared seems like he doesn't give a **** if I am mad or not. I don't knwo if he's awkward and waiting for me to text but either way I think he's tryin to get back at me by putting all this stuff on Facebook and Instagram. So what should I do? Keep on not talking to him? I am so angry I want to unfriend on Facebook and unfollow him on Instagram but i'm afraid that's what he wants is to get a rise out of me, like I don't want to give him the upper hand in a sense, but in the same breathe I am so angry. I just don't know what to do. Thank you! Please I need your input!
whichwayisup Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 He's a guy..and just a friend. He isn't a girl and he isn't over thinking this like you are, trust me. Let it go completely, don't bring any of that past stuff up and just be in the moment. Send him a hey, what are you doing text. Or just a hey, wanted to say hi, or make it sports related if he's into that. It was so excessive, and I don't know if he was trying to get to me or what? Very doubtful. Don't make what he does or doesn't do on facebook about you.
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