dudley87 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Hi all, basically me an my girl mate are friends; we have had our ups and downs but for the last week we have been getting on fine; only until last night she said sooner or later we wont be speaking to each other again, i asked her why she said that; she said she sees me differently now because i hurt her in the past with things i said to her and that no matter what happens she will always keep memorys of what i did with her; i was begging for a chance with her but she said i can give u 100 chances but whats done is done; so i said ok i respect ur decision and said im sorry and wished her best luck for the future; she replied thanks you 2, literally 10 mins later she sends me a hug so i reply with a confused sign; she said she cant sleep and that shes sorry and i should go out an look for a woman who i can spend my life with; i said im done with that an i cant keep friends never mind a woman; anyway i said i had a headache an im goin to bed; she replied is that is then? Im lost? Well i replied thats up to u not me; she replied back i dont know, if i dont message ya after today then leave it as that, what shall i do now??
mukkrakker Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 what shall i do now?? Get on with your life - this is no basis for a stable relationship.
VeronicaRoss Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 That friend has a lot of growing up to do. Your confusion is a sign to back away with "You told me that there was no forgiving me, so we do need to move on. Thanks for our friendship and I wish you well." Then ignore her moves to bring you back. I can almost guarantee you'll see a repeat of this same drama.
Author dudley87 Posted January 31, 2014 Author Posted January 31, 2014 Well she met up with me the next day to give me a few things back and i could tell she didnt really want to lose me because i was in tears she kept saying stop being silly and getting worked up, anyway she said il still talk to you :s i thanked her and she went on her way; a few hours later she text me to see if i was ok, i replied im ok just got a headache; she has been textin me everyday since an yesterday she said i wish things were better between us and what happened in the past didnt happen, i said well im sorry and i wish i could turn back time; she said stop worrying whats done is done. I think i will have to change her way of thinking towards me but thats going to take alot of time. What do you think?
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