japoniazombie Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 well, there's this girl I've met about 3 months ago and I really really love her, but I'm not sure how she likes me. We started chatting form time to time over facebook, nothing too big. I started to like her and she seemed like she liked me back. Anyways, days went by, we kept chatting a lot. We ended up making plans ahead to chat together because we are both really busy at school and that thing went on. We went out a couple of times as friends. After 3 weeks I told her I liked her and she was speechless then she said in suprised voice "cool". I asked her if she liked me back and she said she does, but she isn't sure yet, but will tell me when she decides. Anyways, that day she was still the same, still acting really nice, I didn't feel the slightest change. We kept going out as friends and chatting. She sends me lots of kisses at almost everything she says. All of our free time we spend together chatting. She even made me compliments, always hinting at how smart I am. She's really intelligent too and I tried to impress her a lot with this. I've also made her compliments. We've made a bet a few weeks ago. I didn't have too many chances to win so I asked her for a kiss if I did. She said yes and asked me what should she receive if she'd won. I told her that she can get anything she wants and she said that she'll slap me if she did. We went out this weekend after a long time of not seeing each other in person. She had a really bad cold, but she didn't want to stay in and she said she really wanted to see me even with a fever. We went out but nothing happened. She was really really talkative, she didn't pause once, like she was nervous and we kept having some small talk, I couldn't change the subject. Could she have been nervous? The deadline for the bet is tomorrow and we joked and joked about it a lot, she giving me mixed signals. I jokingly asked her a few days ago if she can't wait to slap me and she put a sad face and asked me if that's what I believe. We kept joking about it and I asked her now if she wants to win again and she said she isn't on any side and we shall see tomorrow. She is a very direct girl to others, she never hides what she thinks, but with this I'm not sure. I don't think she ever had a boyfriend before either. She's 17. I'm not sure if she is nervous and shy or if she really thinks I'm just a good friend and nothing more. Can you give me any opinions or any advice on what I should do?
Woop1337 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Most likely she only likes you as a friend and/or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. If she really liked you like that, she wouldn't need any time to decide on anything, once you told her you like her. Think about it, women that are really interested in a man don't act like that. I suggest is to ask her on a date, if she says yes. Then you still have a chance. Then again you guys have gone out as friends. So make sure you use the word date next time, so she'll know what exactly you mean.
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