Dess Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 i have been dating this guy for 3years and suddenly his ex girlfriend resurfaced. i had to break it off with him because i could see she already took the space. i recently found out they are married, she changed her status on Facebook to married and they share same surname now. now he said he wants me back, he wants me to have his baby, and that i am just getting things into my head. i truly love him and everyone knows that including my parents because our relationship was to the extent of knowing each others family members. i truly am confused and i need some advice
tinker683 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Run, do not walk, as far away from this situation as you can!!! Seriously, nothing good will come from this all. This guy sounds like he really doesn't know what he wants. 6
d0nnivain Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Why are you confused? He's a jerk. He cheated on her with you. He MARRIED her, not you. Translation: he picked HER; you are second best. Why would you want him to procreate? Why can't his wife have his baby? What is wrong with you that you are considering this? I know you "love" him but that's not enough. How will you explain your child's conception to him or her later in life when the child asks? What kind of an example does that set? If you want to be a single mom fine, get IVF. Don't do this.
SadNLonley Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 Let me tell you a little story that I hope opens yours eyes and makes your run far far away. I met this guy right after my divorce. We had such physical chemistry it was something I have never and probably never will experience again. Problem was outside the bed that we had issues. We dated on/off until I met my BF. We broke off the thing we had, but he continuously contacted me. I have 2 teenage children and do not want anymore. He would contact me and ask me to have his baby. He would pay to have my tubes untied. He wanted a baby so bad. FREAKKKKKK. Anyway, this never went anywhere with us. He meets this gal. 6 months into it he tells me (cuz he keeps texting me) he needs to bring up the baby situation and if she wont have his baby he needs to break it off. I guess she agreed. This is their lovely relationship. They have been together 2 years and only sleep together maybe once a week. they would rather pay for invitro than have sex to conceive a baby. He spends almost every day in the bathroom doing the hand thing. She at least told him she wanted to be married first so now they are planning a wedding and she isn't even his true love. He STILL calls me and asks me to meet him and tells me he thinks im his soulmate, blah blah blah. Bottomline... Who wants a man that really only wants a baby and will do whatever they have to do to get it??? Run Run. He is a jerk.
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