ikilledacockroach Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 (edited) Woke up feeling surprisingly cheery today! That sad, lonely feeling still comes and goes but surprisingly it hurts less than it did the first day slowly but surely I will get over it! Managing to keep myself busy with school and the gym and surrounding myself with lovely, lovely people. And I know it's only been four days no contact and I still have a long way to go to get over this but I feel lighter and like I'm able to think clearer now! The ex put me through a month of confusion, worry and sadness and now I finally realize I should just focus on myself and make sure my happiness comes first! But the ex left lots of his clothes and stuff here and I'm wondering if I should just mail them to him? I don't want to get in touch (that's a lie, I do but I WON'T LET MYSELF!) and probably just mailing his stuff is the right way to go? I'd rather not meet up with one of his friends who lives just a couple of minutes away and have to make with the awkward 'oh hi how are you doing' conversation :/ Edited January 28, 2014 by ikilledacockroach 1
bubblesbursted Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 As far as everyone told me , I think majority of people would ask you to mail it back instead of handing it in person! And congratulations you survived this long NC. You are doing great. 1
H245 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Mail it back to your ex. He should understand why you did not want to contact him. 1
JDPT Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 I would put then in a box and somewhere where it won't be seeing. It's way too soon for you to have any type of interaction. If you really think about this, it's not crucial that you immediately return his stuff, if he wants his clothes so badly he will end up asking for them.
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