RyanBear Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 So we broke up about 2 months ago and she went out with a guy and continued to talk to me saying she misses me. After telling her that I need space, she suddenly messages me a week after saying she loves me and has broken it off with the other guy. So today I found out she'll be coming to my State for 6 months to go school. Should I take her back or wait and see how things are before I jump back into a relationship with her? It would be nice to see her in my state for 6 months but idk if i should. Btw she and i are 19 and from different countries. Im from USA she is from AUS.
d0nnivain Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 If the distance was a considerable factor in your break up, you probably should at least see her again when she arrives. If you can date IRL because you are now local, that may solve some of the problems but what happens when she does home again ?
TaraMaiden Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 ...but then again, if she's only coming for 6 months, that'll mean another separation, and frankly... why do you want to work that hard....?
justwhoiam Posted January 29, 2014 Posted January 29, 2014 So we broke up about 2 months ago and she went out with a guy and continued to talk to me saying she misses me. After telling her that I need space, she suddenly messages me a week after saying she loves me and has broken it off with the other guy. So today I found out she'll be coming to my State for 6 months to go school. Should I take her back or wait and see how things are before I jump back into a relationship with her? It would be nice to see her in my state for 6 months but idk if i should. Btw she and i are 19 and from different countries. Im from USA she is from AUS. Maybe she's trying to have the best of both worlds? She will enjoy your company while she's there, then she breaks up with you before leaving for Australia, telling the other guy how much she's been missing him and getting back with him as soon as she's home. You judge if you can take that. It might be some fun time for you too. Maybe not.
Author RyanBear Posted January 29, 2014 Author Posted January 29, 2014 @justwhoiam Yeah idk kind of scared but ill see how she is before getting back with her because she will be coming in about 6 months giving me time to see how she is and to see if i would want her back. @taramaiden I really have no clue... I think its the fact that shes coming down and I would like to see how it would be if we were dating locally. @Donnivain Yeah long distance played somewhat of a factor but other things as well. I really didnt think about after 6 months but I'll see how it goes when she is here. Thanks guys i think ill talk to her and see if she really does want me back. I have 6 months to make my decision.
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