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WP4046 Established Member

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Not sure if it's another guy but I noticed the past few days that the behavior of this girl i am supposed to meet soon is screaming...."fading away"

 

1. Sent a text on Friday night...............No response all weekend

 

2. Called last night and she cut the convo short because she was coming from the market and never called back like she said

 

3. I called tonight and No answer

 

 

 

 

One thing about someone fading away is it's so sudden LOL. One week a woman can be interested and then the next week she is not.

 

 

We were supposed to meet this past weekend but the weather has been so nasty so I told her this weekend should be fine since the weather looks to be ok for saturday. So I will send a text about meeting saturday and that should let me know everything I need to know.

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If I were you I'd leave it and see if she comes to you rather than trying to contact her again.

 

If she were interested she would have already contacted you.

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pickflicker Established Member

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Not sure if it's another guy but I noticed the past few days that the behavior of this girl i am supposed to meet soon is screaming...."fading away"

 

1. Sent a text on Friday night...............No response all weekend

 

2. Called last night and she cut the convo short because she was coming from the market and never called back like she said

 

3. I called tonight and No answer

 

 

 

 

One thing about someone fading away is it's so sudden LOL. One week a woman can be interested and then the next week she is not.

 

 

We were supposed to meet this past weekend but the weather has been so nasty so I told her this weekend should be fine since the weather looks to be ok for saturday. So I will send a text about meeting saturday and that should let me know everything I need to know.

 

Too many texts. You've given her more than enough opportunity to contact you. Her lack of reply is crystal clear.

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WP4046 Established Member

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well she then slide down and I have to move someone else up.

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You know if someone doesn't invest in me I do not invest in them,you must have good standards for yourself so the right person will prize you.

 

This time spent wasting on a person who doesn't value you so much, will absolutely diminish you,don't be diminished because then what will be left of your self esteem to offer anyone? if you waste yourself on such people.

 

 

 

Not sure if it's another guy but I noticed the past few days that the behavior of this girl i am supposed to meet soon is screaming...."fading away"

 

1. Sent a text on Friday night...............No response all weekend

 

2. Called last night and she cut the convo short because she was coming from the market and never called back like she said

 

3. I called tonight and No answer

 

 

 

 

One thing about someone fading away is it's so sudden LOL. One week a woman can be interested and then the next week she is not.

 

 

We were supposed to meet this past weekend but the weather has been so nasty so I told her this weekend should be fine since the weather looks to be ok for saturday. So I will send a text about meeting saturday and that should let me know everything I need to know.

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This one is gone mate.

 

I too have never understood how women can act all interested in a bloke one week then not consider him more relevant than dog sh#t the next.

 

You were probably used for attention.

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One thing about someone fading away is it's so sudden LOL. One week a woman can be interested and then the next week she is not.

 

We were supposed to meet this past weekend but the weather has been so nasty so I told her this weekend should be fine since the weather looks to be ok for saturday. So I will send a text about meeting saturday and that should let me know everything I need to know.

You cancelled a date because of the weather and she lost interest. What is surprising about that? If someone didn't want to meet me because of the bad weather I would either assume he didn't care all that much or that he was a complete pussy.

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FitChick Established Member

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She hasn't faded away, she has disappeared.

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FitChick Established Member

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If someone didn't want to meet me because of the bad weather I would either assume he didn't care all that much or that he was a complete pussy.

 

Yeah! Why would someone be afraid to go out in this? Or this? Man up!

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You cancelled a date because of the weather and she lost interest. What is surprising about that? If someone didn't want to meet me because of the bad weather I would either assume he didn't care all that much or that he was a complete pussy.

 

When its snowing and 15 degrees that's not weather for a 1st date

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Zack_Palmer New Member

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@ WP4046

 

You did nothing wrong here.

 

However, in the larger scale of the situation

You have to realize that Women's minds/emotions/rationale are always fluctuating.

 

Leave the situation cold (No pun intended, weather in your area sounds brutal)

for a couple days, and then text her something funny.

It could be a funny picture, or an update of something thats going on in your life at the moment that you had to share with her.

 

Offer Her the Value!

 

In the situation your in at the moment, its the most logical way to get Her back Engaged.

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Imajerk17 Established Member

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Whether it was "wrong" of you to cancel for the first date due to the nasty weather (I think it was a bad idea on your part that shows low interest), it still was a poor move on your part.

 

Moving the first date to a week away means you lose momentum. Meanwhile she is talking to other guys. You do the math.

 

Next time, show up and offer to pick her up if need be. In general, be very careful about rescheduling a first date for later. Too much can go wrong.

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WP4046 Established Member

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Whether it was "wrong" of you to cancel for the first date due to the nasty weather (I think it was), it still was a poor move on your part.

 

Moving the first date to a week away means you lose momentum. Meanwhile she is talking to other guys. You do the math.

 

Next time, show up and offer to pick her up if need be. In general, be very careful about rescheduling a first date for later. Too much can go wrong.

 

It was rescheduled not cancelled.

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894hjk Established Member

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U sound a bit needy. If a guy keeps texting me I will ignore him as its a sure sign he's a bit much.

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U sound a bit needy. If a guy keeps texting me I will ignore him as its a sure sign he's a bit much.

 

 

Didn't know that 1 text a day was considered a lot

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Didn't know that 1 text a day was considered a lot

 

it's not. but, if she's not interested, then any number is too much. yup, she's not interested. but, hey, guys do the fade too.

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it's not. but, if she's not interested, then any number is too much. yup, she's not interested. but, hey, guys do the fade too.

 

 

I know, its actually called the quiet fade off

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