CLS63AMG Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 I heard a line of dialogue during a movie that really gave me a lot of clarity and peace of mind regarding break ups. Movie was "beautiful girls" and the guy had been dumped by his chick. He thought she left because he hadn't married her - so he goes and buys a ring, walks into her work and presents it to her. He says "Please take this ring and come back to me - I am going crazy without you and can't live like this" Now this is gold... She says: "One chooses a partner on what one wants, not on what one doesn't want" - Meaning he only wanted her back to make the break up anxieties go away. So ask yourself this - do you really want your ex back because of who they are, all their BS included?? Or....OR do you just want the break up anxieties to go away and getting them back is the easiest way to make that happen? Still sobbing? OK... Make a list of all the things you hated about your ex and write them all down. Things that may have been small problems now, but were certain to turn larger in the future (this can include them too...larger ) I just felt that line really made sense, especially when going through a break up with a chick I was basically done with anyway (but left me). It helped me and I hope it helps some here going through the break up crap. Be well friends 4
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