Molls Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 I ended a relationship with someone I reconnected with after many years. He is a good guy at heart, but not good for me because he has way too many self inflicted problems. He got angry and hung up when I told him I didn't want too see him and I feel bad about it. I was really interested in him, but then he started showing his old ways and I realized he hasn't changed. one thing I've learned in life is that you can't change people. I don't want to date him, but I don't want him to hate me either. I'm so tired of being challenged in relationships. I've broken up with people before, but I don't usually feel this bad about it.
Philosoraptor Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Did you make the best decision for yourself? If so, you have nothing to feel bad about. You were honest and cut ties for valid reasons. No need to look back.
sw2020 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Sounds like you're doing you both a favour to me.
d0nnivain Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 He's hurt. Hate is easier to deal with then admitted you're in pain. You made the best decision for yourself. Let it go.
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