jinandjuice Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Should I be concerned if this girl I am seeing told one of her room mates significant other that she wasn't interested in me but we still go on dates, cuddle kiss? What a non interested girl go out of her way to see me? Like this one time she had plans with her girlfriends but I pulled her out of her way for 3 hours and then she went back to them. What gives? What should I do?
TheyCallMeOx Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 You should be concerned because that's an indication of lack of communication. In a relationship, communication is a BIG TIME thing and if you both aren't willing to be communicative, then it is a huge red flag.
d0nnivain Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 You should talk to the girl in question not rely on what somebody else says about it 3rd hand.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 You need to speak to the girl. Ask her to be very candid about where she thinks things are going, but don't let her know you've heard anything from anyone else just yet. There are two big problems here: 1) her potential lack of interest. 2) her unwillingness to communicate that to you directly. How did this even come up? I mean, how was this information relayed to you by the friend's significant other?
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