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So I was contacted after 24 days


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After being apart for 54 days, and being in total nc for 24, she contacted me with a small bread crumb nothing relevant to us so i easily let it go. Next day (yesterday) contacted me again reinforcing her decision and that we would both be better this way, now today getting contacted again.

 

Nothing about im sorry, or taking responsibility at all, just that she was thinking of me remembering things, and feels that it means something.

 

Well Im feeling like a raggedy andy doll between 2 cars going in different directions. If she hasnt gone all the way to say shes sorry, then I guess I shouldnt say a word?

 

Someone help

 

** ps I still havent gotten a clear idea if she is with someone else yet, I was under the impression she was**

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She feels guilty and wants you to help relieve her guilt, or she wants to use you to boost her own ego.

 

Not worth your time man, not worth your time.

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Yeah, she wants you to reply so that she gets you thinking about her, thus, making her feel better. Keep NC man. 7 years is a long time. It will take a while for both of you to get over all this.

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