AlexisMacabre Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 So my ex bf and I broke up on New Year's Eve and the stuff he's been putting me through ever since just has me so confused, I can't seem to understand what he wants, he says he doesn't wanna get back together because he doesn't want to fight anymore but he still gives me rides places and brings me food and talks to me every single time he sees me and recently just started to act jealous because I just moved in with a male roommate (I have my own room) and he's been one of our good friends also so he has no reason to get jealous when he knows nothing has ever gone on between us and he has a gf but he's not only been acting like that he's also been getting mad about things I do for example last night he came over to hang with my roommate and he got mad at me for trying to take a couple of sleepin pills to get to sleep and well when we were together he never liked for me to take them so I never did but now that we're not together it shouldn't matter but he got really upset about it so I stopped and didn't take them and he quit being mad. He also told me he can't do things we used to do together because he feels upset about it but again he doesn't want me back so idk I'm getting tired of this and I don't know what he wants so can anyone just give a poor girl some advice? I'm confused.
d0nnivain Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 He is scared to be on his own & you represent a known quantity. The issues that you broke you up aren't fixed. He doesn't really want to get back together but he isn't a jerk & cares about your well being. If you want to get over him stop accepting rides from him & ease him out of your life. If you want to get back together with him tell him to either step up or get out. 2
xUnknown Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 He is scared to be on his own & you represent a known quantity. The issues that you broke you up aren't fixed. He doesn't really want to get back together but he isn't a jerk & cares about your well being. If you want to get over him stop accepting rides from him & ease him out of your life. If you want to get back together with him tell him to either step up or get out. Yeah, but you both need to work on yourselves. Perhaps look at different methods of falling asleep instead of pills. I know certain sleeping pills can lead to dependence. It sounds like he cares.
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