Traindreck Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 sorry, Im very fresh at LS but learned a lot already. I just want to ask something about NC. When you are in NC with your ex gf (who dumped you) it means you should completely disappear from social media (including twitter) like a ninja or you should just NC with her and keep going on other places, Thanks, TD
bubblesbursted Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Interesting question, something I would want to know as well. Going nc includes going off facebook , twitter and any other means of contact with that person or just ignoring their presence? PS : I hope you are doing okay.
todreaminblue Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 sorry, Im very fresh at LS but learned a lot already. I just want to ask something about NC. When you are in NC with your ex gf (who dumped you) it means you should completely disappear from social media (including twitter) like a ninja or you should just NC with her and keep going on other places, Thanks, TD ninja all the way.......heal.....move on.....then think about social media.....deb 1
bubblesbursted Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 ninja all the way.......heal.....move on.....then think about social media.....deb So we just disappear from their life? Remove facebook and other medias?
guest572 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Whatever you think is best. I think social media is still contact whether it is direct or indirect. I personally avoid it 1
Author Traindreck Posted January 27, 2014 Author Posted January 27, 2014 ninja all the way.......heal.....move on.....then think about social media.....deb It means i should not tweet about anything also ? So she cannot track what's going on at my life ? Thanks ! I was in NC for 10 days but accidently i wrote to her via whatsapp and now closed my whatsapp acc. also. Now starting to NC from zero (day 2 actually)
pickflicker Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 It means i should not tweet about anything also ? So she cannot track what's going on at my life ? Thanks ! I was in NC for 10 days but accidently i wrote to her via whatsapp and now closed my whatsapp acc. also. Now starting to NC from zero (day 2 actually) Just delete and block from all your social media. There's no need to shut down FB or Twitter. Just delete and block. 2
todreaminblue Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 So we just disappear from their life? Remove facebook and other medias? when you have a really bad blister you dont put the same shoes on and hope it goes away on its own while eventually it is rubbed raw with contact...you remove those shoes let the blister heal and then you wear those stilettos again....smilin.......frisky like........ you dont have to remove social media...just dont use it....when you feel like checking up....you do something else....you take a breather.......you get up from the computer and do something that makes you feel good.....every individual is different though........that is what it amounts too....ocd tendencies and the ability to will yourself away.from making contact either inadvertently or not so inadvertently....deb 1
bubblesbursted Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Thanks ! I was in NC for 10 days but accidently i wrote to her via whatsapp and now closed my whatsapp acc. also. Now starting to NC from zero (day 2 actually) Damn you closed your whatsapp? Your way to strong! Good. And here I am arguing with myself whether or not I should delete my whatsapp , I keep stalking him. And good luck with NC! And deb (I hope i got it right) , I will take your suggestion.
todreaminblue Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Damn you closed your whatsapp? Your way to strong! Good. And here I am arguing with myself whether or not I should delete my whatsapp , I keep stalking him. And good luck with NC! And deb (I hope i got it right) , I will take your suggestion. good luck bubble.......everything must change.......for change to have an affect......you can do it.......best wishes....deb 1
Author Traindreck Posted January 27, 2014 Author Posted January 27, 2014 Thanks for kind answers people ! Well, then NC is not for me totally, cause my job requires to "tweet" about many thing, sometimes retweet and stuffs like this. (my job is based on internet) so unfortunately it means i cannot go NC totally and she can check me whenever she wants, right ? That sucks anyway
Carly Lou Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 I've shut all mine down and also thrown away the SIM card he bought as he could track my calls from it. Enjoying being incognito at the moment as it's helping me heal a bit and concentrate on myself, but it's VERY hard because I want to check
bubblesbursted Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 I've shut all mine down and also thrown away the SIM card he bought as he could track my calls from it. Enjoying being incognito at the moment as it's helping me heal a bit and concentrate on myself, but it's VERY hard because I want to check Hmm so basically , we have to make sure he doesnt know about our activities? Its my first day of Nc
Discover Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 In my experinece..I logged out of all social media..moved all the things i got from her and we shared..DO NOT CHECK...that's what i am repeating to myself..i don't want myself to be hurt again and ruin my oppinion about the girl i loved....and about the activities...don't make sure he doesn't know....rather..Don't CARE if he knows or not... 1
organizedchaos Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 sorry, Im very fresh at LS but learned a lot already. I just want to ask something about NC. When you are in NC with your ex gf (who dumped you) it means you should completely disappear from social media (including twitter) like a ninja or you should just NC with her and keep going on other places, Thanks, TD No, its not that difficult. You don't need to shut down your social media because of them. Just stay away from theirs. Block them if you have to. But go on living your life as you want.
Haydn Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Block them, they do not deserve your attention, they dropped you. If they want to find you and beg then they will find away. Take it from someone is listened too late and got flayed for it emotionally. Trust me if the temptation is there, you will look! So do it today.
Lennon Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 sorry, Im very fresh at LS but learned a lot already. I just want to ask something about NC. When you are in NC with your ex gf (who dumped you) it means you should completely disappear from social media (including twitter) like a ninja or you should just NC with her and keep going on other places, Thanks, TD better off blocking her or deactivating man, with every happy picture you see of her being posted post breakup each one is like a knife in the heart. You see pictures of her at a party looking beautiful, bad thoughts will pop in your head like, she's single, she looks like that, guys were probably all over her. You think how can she be so happy while i am in pieces. It just hurts man, facebook is a F*cker in terms of breaking up. since i blocked i come a long way but i've got a long way to go. thats just my two cents man. I learned the hard way by unblocking and blocking and unblocking and blocking, every time you unblock, it bloody hurts. I have gotten to the point where i know unblocking it now will just serve to hurt me and because of this i am actually afraid to unblock her as i don't want to feel that spiral in from my chest to my stomach again :]
jphcbpa Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 fb is a waste of time. fill your mind with other things that can heal you. block, delete, deactivate, throw away ect. your emotional serenity is # f'ing 1. guard, garden and protect that at ALL costs. who cares what anyone else things. take care of you. that person and R is dead.
guest572 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Thanks for kind answers people ! Well, then NC is not for me totally, cause my job requires to "tweet" about many thing, sometimes retweet and stuffs like this. (my job is based on internet) so unfortunately it means i cannot go NC totally and she can check me whenever she wants, right ? That sucks anyway I presume these Tweets are public and she does not require a login? Is she able to interact with you on there? If so can you block her somehow? I guess if they're just work tweets and there is no interaction between you I wouldn't worry too much.
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