Dating

[PassionsteH]

So I met this woman I've been dating for seven months. We both established that we weren't in a rush for anything and we have been letting things flow the way they flow. She recently told me that she has someone in her life who presented her with the "me or him" ultimatum which came as a complete surprise to me since I was unaware she had a connection with someone else.

 

On one end of the spectrum I'm very weary because like I stated I had no idea of this. On the other hand, can't really fault her because we have no commitment and I myself have had relations with more than several women since we started talking. However, I have feelings for none of them and this woman occupies my mind 24/7 no matter what I'm doing, even when I'm with another woman. What's bugging me is I'm not really sure where her heart is? I thought the feeling I had for her was mutual and now I'm unsure. She told me she didn't like the idea of feeling forced for anything and she wants to proceed with me. Although Ive been known as a "player" the root of me takes love and commitment very seriously and when I'm commited I'm just that, commited. I've never truly liked more than woman at once. I guess my main concern is if it's possible for this woman to have a mutual feeling with me? Could we proceed getting to know each other and the feeling be mutual? I'm so heartbroken . I would really like a woman's input on this. Thanks.

Edited January 27, 2014 by PassionsteH

[PegNosePete]

She told me she didn't like the idea of feeling forced for anything and she wants to proceed with me.

Well that's your answer right there isn't it? Tell her you want to date her exclusively.

[jackmatricson]

I think, It will better talk her and express your feeling on her. If she interested then you may continue your relationship which is more than friendship. It's completely depends upon your mutual understanding.