I feel attractive again

[Kevin_D]

I don't know what happened. Most guys say that more women seem to be attracted to them while they're in a serious relationship.

 

My ex was a ridiculously hot girl who really enjoyed showing her love for me in public. I guess that should have made me more confident and make other women thing "Wow, if a hot girl like that is head over heels with him, there must be somerthing really special with that dude".

 

But the funny thing is that I started to feel less and less confident. Women would never try to flirt with me. And I other guys would tell me stuff like "You're the king of us nerds" simply because I had a hot girlfriend.

 

Since the break-up, I've got attention from hot girls every time I've been out with my friends. I woke up with an incredilby beautiful girl in my arms the other day. We stayed up all night having a blast together.

 

Next week, I'm going on a date with a really intelligent girl and I'm really looking forward to it.

 

I still miss my ex like crazy, but I couldn't care less about this new person she has become. And meeting new women has made me realise one thing: My ex wasn't very supportive.

 

If I hang out with other girls, she would make me feel guilty. But if I was jealous, she would talk about how I can't control my anger. Almost every time I was out with me friends, she would show up and join the party and try to split up the group by making out with me or something like that.

 

In the next moment, she would get me tons of romantic gifts and constantly saying how much she loved me.

 

It's like she wanted me to become dependent on her! She wanted me to believe that she by far is the greatest catch I could ever get. Slowly, I began to lose confidence. I felt like I needed her. Everyone was being an ******* towards me except for her. My girlfriend by my side was me giving the finger to the world. "You may laugh at me, but guess what? I got the girl!"

 

They say self-confidence must come from within. I realsed a long time ago that I'd become to dependent on her. But what I hadn't realised until now, is that she didn't really want me to be confident. Because when I am confident, I can be quite funny and charming, and that would mean that I would attract other women, which she couldn't stand.

 

But still I can't really understand how getting dumped could be such a confidence boost.

[pickflicker]

Because despite her being attractive, she was incredibly insecure. Which emanated off her in waves. Which then rubbed off on you.

 

You're better off without her.