Kermit76 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 (edited) Was at an event last week with the possibility of running into my ex. A company we both work for doing freelance events. Months ago I would be eager to run into her thinking if she saw me maybe she have a change of heart after dumping me. BUT I couldn't wait to leave. I didnt want to run into her. Maybe I knew it would set me back. Maybe I'm starting to see the bigger pictute. Its over. She's not coming back. Its time for me to move on. I finally am. If she does contact me I will ignore or come on here for advice. Thanks for the support LS. People said the 4 month mark was when things would change. Not to say its the same for everyone but I'm starting to care and think about her less. Hope to get back out there dating soon too. Edited January 27, 2014 by Kermit76 2
mtnbiker3000 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 ^^^ Agreed. This recent 'up' feeling may be temporary. Wait it out for a bit and see where it goes
erklat Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Unlikely. If he was mainly 'up' lately he will be less down or not at all in the future.
Author Kermit76 Posted January 27, 2014 Author Posted January 27, 2014 Will see what happens. Taking it day by day. Feeling pretty good but will admit still a little anger there. Actually may start seeing a social worker. Not just pertaining to break up but other issues as well. Low self esteem is one of them. Hoping getting back out there and meeting new people will help my confidence and who knows what can happen. Most importantly, for those who know my posts I wanted to give other people hope that recovery and progress is at the end of the dark tunnel. 2
mtnbiker3000 Posted January 28, 2014 Posted January 28, 2014 Will see what happens. Taking it day by day. A wise strategy!!! Feeling pretty good but will admit still a little anger there. Actually may start seeing a social worker. Not just pertaining to break up but other issues as well. Low self esteem is one of them. Again, nice work!! This one will pay off nicely. There is lots of good material out there on this topic. PM me if you want to share ideas / materials
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