MATTR93 Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Me and my gf had only been dating a couple of months when it came to choosing unis and I have now moved a good 3 1/2 hours on the train (costing at least £60 each way) we started off ok calling and texting every night after uni/work but since I came back from uni after Christmas things haven't felt quite the same, I've been missing her more than anything and can't sleep at night unless I have a picture of her on my pillow and when we do talk to each other an argument starts over the smallest things which we both blame on missing each other so much and not being able to see each other. we said at the start that we'd see each other every other weekend, only later we realised how expensive this would be and she now works weekends and finds it extremely hard to get time off. We have had a couple of arguments recently that have ended in the suggestion of ending it but once we have both calmed down we've talked it over and said we've just been silly. I've got to the point where I think the distance is putting too much pressure on the relationship, am I wrong? And I am debating wether or not to continue to my second year, is that a good idea?
d0nnivain Posted January 27, 2014 Posted January 27, 2014 Many relationships don't survive the transition to uni. Distance & cost are bug parts of the problem. It may simply be time for you two to explore the whole wide world.
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